16th birthday gift for boy?

Anonymous
My oldest is turning 16 soon. He doesn’t want anything as a gift and he doesn’t want a party. He knows we will go have dinner with him. Feel like it’s kind of a big birthday, but also going to be mid week so balancing school and sports schedules.

We already spent almost $400 buying him b2s clothes, shoes, and tech supplies just within the last couple weeks. Also went on a family vacation not long ago.

Anyways, just thinking about decorating the house, balloons, take him out to dinner, cake, and give him some ca$h to add to his bank account to buy whatever.

It’s fairly low maintenance for me, but my younger daughter still asks for parties and I guess I’m feeling like I may not be “celebrating” his bday enough.

What are you all getting your 16 year olds and are you doing anything fun?
Anonymous
A nice watch.
Anonymous
Mine just wants a car 😂
Anonymous
cash if you aren't getting him a car
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Mine just wants a car 😂


Maybe $ to contribute to his car fund!
Anonymous
Why not buy him a beginner knitting kit? Hmmm??
Anonymous
Start a Roth IRA for him is you haven’t already done so. And/or money for him to invest safely.
Anonymous
I would just do the dinner/cake thing and ask if he wants to invite a friend or two. So, not a party, just a friend joining the family for a nice dinner.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Start a Roth IRA for him is you haven’t already done so. And/or money for him to invest safely.

Oh good one!
Anonymous
Mine got a big Lego set, a board game he wanted, and something he needed for his band instrument. He also invited some friends to the pool to celebrate. We had cake.
Anonymous
Is there anything small he would like as a present in addition to cash? Snacks? A funny t-shirt? Some kind of little car related thing? A mini drone? Basically a little stocking stuffer level thing to make it a little more fun.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Start a Roth IRA for him is you haven’t already done so. And/or money for him to invest safely.


+1

Please read up on the rules around it. Maintain records for IRA etc.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Is there anything small he would like as a present in addition to cash? Snacks? A funny t-shirt? Some kind of little car related thing? A mini drone? Basically a little stocking stuffer level thing to make it a little more fun.


Yes! Decided to give him a little electronic building set and going to add some cash on top.
Anonymous
He has to earn the money for a Roth. Mine keeps a running wish list with links. Makes it easy. Ask him.
Anonymous
You could buy him a doll house. Boys can play with doll houses too, you know.
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