Revenge Affairs?
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Anonymous
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Rather than opening the marriage or divorcing immediately for the children, did anyone have a solid revenge affair to even out the relationship?
If so, did it improve your self esteem and act as an equalizer or make you hate yourself for becoming the same person that destroyed you? Asking for a friend…..of course! |
Anonymous
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Call me, boo. |
Anonymous
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Lol. Not revenge. Revenge is when you make them squirm for what they did and full of shame.
Not when you prove to yourself that somebody will still hit it. |
Anonymous
| Find out how it went from the spending the weekend at a hotel poster. Maybe replicate that g@ngb@ng. |
Anonymous
| How would it be revenge if it wasn’t equal (one night stand to strike back at ONS; multi year affair to strike back at same). You never know what dh really did before confessing. |
Anonymous
| Search revenge affair. Lots of threads on this. |
Anonymous
| How would immediate divorce be for the children? |
Anonymous
| Come home with that special hair gel in your hair/on your face. |
Anonymous
| Have some self respect OP. |
Anonymous
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Do better. Divorce.
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Anonymous
| Fun, just do not get caught. |
Anonymous
LOL @ "even out". Just divorce. |
Anonymous
| I mean I'd really sink into whether this would really make you feel better. Because you'd be having sex with a third person but it would be about the cheater. So that whole interaction would ultimately be an expression of that person's influence over you. That doesn't feel liberating to me. |
Anonymous
| Look if you want to satisfy your ego don't waste your time. Now matter how old how ugly how fat etc you can find that one person somewhere who will be willing to accompany you for your revenge affair. Did that satisfy your ego? Don't worry if you step out you will find someone. So just save your time effort and energy for something more fulfilling. |
Anonymous
| That's a common kink thing on some sites. |