MY DS is still having too many accidents to go to pre-school.
He will have accident about 3-4 times a week, he needs to be pull-ups free for the pre school he was going to attend, can he quantify of P-IEP if the only issue he is having is not going to the bathroom on time? He was born on September so he will be 3 next month (almost.) So that is a different issue issue for another day. |
Is this in DC? What school? DCPS will work with him, they’re not going to keep a kid out of PK because of potty accidents. Especially a September birthday boy. Send him and talk to the teacher.
They’re not going to let him wear a pull-up though. Send extra clothes. Accidents in PK3, especially the first couple months, are par for the course. I have heard that some charters are stricter, but I don’t know if that’s just a party line “all kids must be potty trained” but they’ll also deal, or if it’s real. Worth posting the name of the charter, someone here will know. |
My private preschool in Maryland has no rules about potty training. And my kid was accident free in undies closer to 4 and it wasn’t a problem. |
Can you choose a school without such rules? My kid turns 3 in September and still has regular accidents |
We are on a waiting list for a couple, hopefully he can go. W |
No, we live in Prince William- Manasass. |
What's a P-IEP? A regular IEP is for students with disabilities -- so if he was struggling with potty training because of cerebral palsy or autism or whatever. You can't get an IEP just because he's still wearing diapers. |
Have you asked the school? Our school claimed you had to be potty trained but didn't strictly enforce it. They just meant they wouldn't change diapers/pullups at school. Does he poop in the potty? I would just talk to them. |
Send him to daycare, where the staff will deal with the accidents and still expose him to the same things as pre-school. 3 yos do crafts and outside time and ABCs/123s at daycare. It's really not that different. |