My younger sister and I were best friends up until my senior year of highschool. My oldest sister and I have never been close.
I wish I could have that fun close relationship with family but we're just very different people. Makes me sad |
work on the one you used to be BFFs with. there's obviously something good there. |
I am friends with one sibling and friendly but not close with the other. Just don't like spending time with that one. They aren’t nice. I sometimes wish we had a larger, close family, esp for my own kids’ sakes. |
Op here I don't know. I try it's just like I said we're different people now. They are all about striving and networking, a new beach house and wine on the beach and being " scene" . I try but spending time with them is very draining. I'm happier when I don't. |
Oh well? Sounds like you need a therapist to talk to. |
How do your two other sisters get along, and what happened with the one you used to be bffs with? |
I wonder if they feel drained hanging out with you? And I’m guessing you’re not all that happy not hanging out with them if you feel sad and compelled to post. Maybe you can try reaching out to them and not being judgmental about their lives. |
Me too, OP but I have come to terms with it. I have three siblings but am not close to any of them. Good to have close friends instead. |
I'm one of five and I feel like this more often than not. Also makes me sad. |
Op here it is sad. |
You sound stuck up and judgemental |
They are each other's besties. I went out of state to college and they became closer during that time and as I said they are more similar type of people. |