Celibate

[Anonymous]

DH and I no longer have sex. Mostly this does not bother me but lately my libido has resurfaced. His has not. It has been six years since I had sex. I’m not sure what my question is, just had to tell someone.

[Anonymous]

How old are you?

[Anonymous]

Tell him you are opening the marriage. And enjoy yourself safely.

[Anonymous]

Sex is off the table here my wife has no interest at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are you?

Early fifties. I thought after menopause I was done with sex.

[Anonymous]

It’s been 2 years for me. I think. Then once every few years before that. Sometimes more than a few years. Can’t remember. He stopped wanting sex after I gave birth. I’m also in early 50s peri and my libido never left.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH and I no longer have sex. Mostly this does not bother me but lately my libido has resurfaced. His has not. It has been six years since I had sex. I’m not sure what my question is, just had to tell someone.

I was just informed that you need to be more introspective about why your H doesn't want sex with you. You are not entitled to his body. His body, his choice. I'm sure he has some pent up resentment about your failings as a wife that prevents him from feeling in the mood.

Seriously, I feel for you and wish I knew what to tell you. That's a tough one for sure. As a man, I can tell you most men are pretty easy and don't take much at all to get in the mood.
A quick flash is all it takes, or just a look. Maybe he needs a full check-up and blood work. Unless he's really elderly, it's not normal to have no libido. Find a way to gently suggest it to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I no longer have sex. Mostly this does not bother me but lately my libido has resurfaced. His has not. It has been six years since I had sex. I’m not sure what my question is, just had to tell someone.

I was just informed that you need to be more introspective about why your H doesn't want sex with you. You are not entitled to his body. His body, his choice. I'm sure he has some pent up resentment about your failings as a wife that prevents him from feeling in the mood.

Seriously, I feel for you and wish I knew what to tell you. That's a tough one for sure. As a man, I can tell you most men are pretty easy and don't take much at all to get in the mood.
A quick flash is all it takes, or just a look. Maybe he needs a full check-up and blood work. Unless he's really elderly, it's not normal to have no libido. Find a way to gently suggest it to him.

Ozempic killed my husband’s sex drive. I mean, lots of men, young and old, still flirt with me, but I'm invisible to him. He spends most nights on the toilet now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I no longer have sex. Mostly this does not bother me but lately my libido has resurfaced. His has not. It has been six years since I had sex. I’m not sure what my question is, just had to tell someone.

I was just informed that you need to be more introspective about why your H doesn't want sex with you. You are not entitled to his body. His body, his choice. I'm sure he has some pent up resentment about your failings as a wife that prevents him from feeling in the mood.

Seriously, I feel for you and wish I knew what to tell you. That's a tough one for sure. As a man, I can tell you most men are pretty easy and don't take much at all to get in the mood.
A quick flash is all it takes, or just a look. Maybe he needs a full check-up and blood work. Unless he's really elderly, it's not normal to have no libido. Find a way to gently suggest it to him.

Ozempic killed my husband’s sex drive. I mean, lots of men, young and old, still flirt with me, but I'm invisible to him. He spends most nights on the toilet now.

Zepbound killed my wife's sex drive like stay out and stay away.

[Anonymous]

Being married has killed many sex drives. It's a long standing joke for a reason. I think this is why so many women initiate divorce. They're tired of working, taking care of the kids and terrible sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s been 2 years for me. I think. Then once every few years before that. Sometimes more than a few years. Can’t remember. He stopped wanting sex after I gave birth. I’m also in early 50s peri and my libido never left.

How do handle this? Do you stray?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH and I no longer have sex. Mostly this does not bother me but lately my libido has resurfaced. His has not. It has been six years since I had sex. I’m not sure what my question is, just had to tell someone.

Have you tried having a conversation with your husband? If not, maybe therapy.

[Anonymous]

Luigi reactivated mine