If we never learn or act mature should we take advice and abstain from sex? We have 3 kids all not planned and continue the same behaviors with sex and birth control. |
Just get a vasectomy. Best money I ever spent. |
Sounds like you want more kids. |
No we don't and I know that sounds like a wrong answer but we don't. |
This. I hate condoms and struggled to find a birth control that didn't have some kind of negative side effect. DH happily got a vasectomy and it's been the best thing. |
That's exactly it I hate condoms she stopped her pill because of the hormones and we used the pullout method. I have not looked into a vasectomy though. Family and friends want sex off the table until we can show responsible behaviors. |
Vasectomy and condoms until sure swimmers have cleared.
Then do it like rabbits. |
This. Ain't nothing to it. One weekend of tender balls and it's over. |
I don't understand this. The concept is pretty simple: Use birth control if you don't want anymore kids. Don't use birth control if you want more kids.
Why is this hard? |
This is what everyone said to us it shouldn't be this hard. |
How old are you? Adults learn self control and self regulation. It's time to grow up. |
I am 25 she is 26 your right we should have self control. It's not just with sex it's everything spending savings following a budget. We know we should use protection but instead it's I will just pullout or she will say I'm not ovulating and we just have sex. |
Gosh if only there were ways to prevent this from happening. |
What???? Why are your family and friends this invested in your sex life? |
This has to be a troll. |