Divorce from abusive husband
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Anonymous
| All of you who are divorcing an abusive husband who pays you alimony , child support and shares assets he acquired during the marriage - you don’t know how lucky you are. There’s nothing worse than having to pay an abusive ex those things just to get your safety back. It feels like on top of everything you endured you have to pay him ransom. |
Anonymous
| You are paying as that's how the laws are that you were the higher income. |
Anonymous
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I am so sorry to hear about this OP. ❤️🩹
Yes it is truly unfortunate as well as wholly unjust. However one cannot put a price tag on freedom from abuse….. Keep in mind that you are now free > free from a life of pure misery. Try to focus on the positives in your life now & always remember that karma never forgets a face. Wishing you all the best now. |
Anonymous
Some of us have to pay alimony to exes who cheated, so there are many ways in which divorce can be unfair financially but still worth it. |
Anonymous
| Many husbands have to pay alimony and split assets to abusive wives. Sucks either way |
Anonymous
Men are much more likely to be abusive than women. So what you’re describing would be a rare instance. |
Anonymous
Duh… the law isn’t always fair. |
Anonymous
| Sorry, OP. How long do you have to pay? |
Anonymous
| It's important that you maintain him in the lifestyle to which he is accustomed. Simple matter of equity and fairness. |
Anonymous
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