| Judge away and I have my reasons, but if you have a punitive STBX, how would you evade a PA following you? |
| I would have no idea. But I'm not going anywhere that I need to hide, so maybe I wouldn't care?? Although it does seem like a huge invasion of privacy. |
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Is there something specific you don’t want documented?
Your best bet is to approach him or otherwise make it clear you have identified the PI |
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Sorry, but you sow what you reap.
Suffer the consequences. |
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If you travel by car, it's going to be pretty hard. So I would travel by public transport as much as possible. Or take Uber to busy location, wander around to try to lose them, then order Uber to destination you want to go.
The reality is the effort and time that will go into it is probably not worth whatever your ex is trying to get to use against you. |
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First you need a rental car in case there is a tracker in yours. If you carry the same daily jacket, bag, etc, ditch those too.
After you get the rental (don’t leave it alone, even for a minute), casually slide your phone onto someone else’s stuff in case it is being tracked (slip it into a stranger’s bag or a car) or you could just remove all the locking mechanisms and put it somewhere full of poverty and/or very young people. When you’re driving, either speed through the light right after it turns red or maybe drive onto the shoulder of the highway right after an exit, then reverse to the exit and disappear. Good luck! |
| Confront them. And start following them. They can't do anything to you. |
| Hire another PI for destruction. |
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These responses 😩😩😆😆 |
| Why dodge? Go shopping at the mall for a few hours, leave, then turn around and do some more shopping. The PI is on the clock charging your STBX for all the time they are following you |
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What state are you in?
How do you know this “PI” exists? Have you observed the “PI” directly. Most have state licenses |
| Hide in your girlfriend's place. |
| Rent a chicken suit. |
| It would help if we knew what you're trying to do without a tail. |
Mon dieu. This is about the most practical advice I’ve ever read on dcum. |