Are uncircumcised men a dealbreaker for you?

[Anonymous]

For me, they are. I’m sorry. I know it’s natural and not their choice and all that, but I just can’t do it.

And it’s not like you can ask about it in advance, so you have to waste a lot of time. I’ve even considered putting it on my dating profile, but I’m concerned that leading with that subject will invite men who are only interested in sex, which is already a problem on the apps.

To the other women out there, do you just not care about this? Or have you figured out some tactful way to screen for this?

[Anonymous]

I dont care.

Why do you care?

[Anonymous]

How old are you? About half of the men born in the US since the 1980s are not circumcised. You are really limiting yourself

[Anonymous]

Circumcised is a HUGE deal breaker.

Disgusting!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are you? About half of the men born in the US since the 1980s are not circumcised. You are really limiting yourself

Yeah, but if it's an aesthetic turn-off how is that different than saying "I'm only attracted to redheaded guys." That also would limit a person, but if that's what they're attracted to ...

[Anonymous]

I actually prefer intact men. They climax faster. The men I was with who were circumcised took forever to come sometimes. Also intact men give more sensation.

[Anonymous]

After a certain age, circumcised men take forever because they have no sensation there. It’s annoying.

[Anonymous]

Not at all! I’m good either way

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dont care.

Why do you care?

OP here. I won’t go into details to comply with the forum rules, but basically:

1). Odor, in varying degrees (it was NOT just one unhygienic person)

2). Appearance (just personal preference)

3). Automatically lose attraction due to past negative experiences, regardless of current partner’s hygiene, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are you? About half of the men born in the US since the 1980s are not circumcised. You are really limiting yourself

Thirty-six, so yes I’ve encountered them in the past. It doesn’t change my feelings about it.

[Anonymous]

Well, op I'm fifty six and I've only met one. His oral skills made up for it. So I guess in my age age group most are. My sons are. Just like their dad who is a doctor. I would assume most women prefer cut.

[Anonymous]

I far prefer intact. Sex feels better, other stuff is easier without lube, it’s beautiful the way nature intended. I’m American so I didn’t come across one until in my 20s. Trying to never go back 😆

[Anonymous]

Just date Jewish men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just date Jewish men.

Or Moslems.

[Anonymous]

Since this is a deal breaker, asking the blunt question and being honest as soon as possible seems the way to go. Bringing it up before the first date would be the most respectful of his time.