Why do I feel overwhelmingly embarrassed to have phone conversations around other people?

[Anonymous]

This is such a weird thing for me because growing up, we didn’t even have cell phones! Now when I get an actual phone call, I hide in the closet, bathroom, close the bedroom door, it’s not even that the discussions are private in nature. I just have an overwhelming sense of embarrassment when someone hears me on the phone. This includes my relatives. Why does my body respond like this now?

I wonder if it’s because when I take personal calls at work I go to a private location and mentally I could be carrying that over?

This just started happening a few years ago and it’s getting worse.

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way. I don't answer if there are other people around. I value privacy.

[Anonymous]

I don't hide but move to a more private location. Isn't it normal? Why would you make others sit through your private conversation they have no interest in?

[Anonymous]

I think that's normal and healthy. I'm like that too, and I also leave the room when family members make phone calls... in part because they should have their privacy and in part because I don't want to listen to their boring ass conversation.

[Anonymous]

I move to a more private location too, but it’s because my DH actively listens to my conversations and comments afterward. It’s obnoxious.

[Anonymous]

Because you're a civilized and well-mattered person. Talking on the phone in front of other people is incredibly rude

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is such a weird thing for me because growing up, we didn’t even have cell phones! Now when I get an actual phone call, I hide in the closet, bathroom, close the bedroom door, it’s not even that the discussions are private in nature. I just have an overwhelming sense of embarrassment when someone hears me on the phone. This includes my relatives. Why does my body respond like this now?

I wonder if it’s because when I take personal calls at work I go to a private location and mentally I could be carrying that over?

This just started happening a few years ago and it’s getting worse.

I have no idea but I wish more people would refrain from talking loudly on their phones in public spaces. It is so annoying in the supermarket/ stores/ restaurants etc.

[Anonymous]

With remote work, everyone in my house has learned to tune out phone conversations. We've also learned where to be in a room that's off-camera. For example, if I'm trying to get a family member's attention while they're on a Zoom mtg.

[Anonymous]

This could be social anxiety. I am the same way

[Anonymous]

So don't. *shrugs*