Sex again

[Anonymous]

What’s it like the first time after separation/divorce from man I had a child with? I’m pretty sure im still attractive, although older, but I haven’t hooked up with anyone since before I was a mom (like 5 years ago) and I just feel like I don’t even know what I’m doing anymore.

[Anonymous]

It's like riding a bicycle. Hop on and enjoy the ride.

[Anonymous]

Listen, I was with the same dude for 30 years, and I could do it. You’ll be fine. Just be in the right emotional state, feel ready to go there. Don’t force it.

[Anonymous]

It’s even better. Before kids you’re self conscious and worry too much about making sure the man is happy. After kids, I knew my body looked like hell, and I knew what I wanted. So my inhibitions were lowered and I could actually enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

When I think about divorce and being single again, one thing I’m anxious about is new men seeing my c-section scar. It doesn’t look good at all, despite even having a scar revision.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I think about divorce and being single again, one thing I’m anxious about is new men seeing my c-section scar. It doesn’t look good at all, despite even having a scar revision.

I recently told a guy I chat with online and am interested in that I am embarrassed by my stomach, I need to lose some weight, have stretch marks from my first baby, have two surgery scars one is 8 inches long.....he said, Everything about you is beautiful, don't forget that! He knows what I look like and I'm not actually beautiful and he has not seen my stomach, but I would not be afraid for him to see it now. It could be a line, I don't know, but I think with the right guy it can be ok. I hope you find a right guy or two.

[Anonymous]

It’s even better. Before kids you’re self conscious and worry too much about making sure the man is happy. After kids, I knew my body looked like hell, and I knew what I wanted. So my inhibitions were lowered and I could actually enjoy it.

Please follow this advice, OP. You look at your body 1000x times more critically than any man lucky enough to enjoy you.

Compliment your lover on things you like about his body.

When he does something you like, lean (or moan) into it. You will both have much more fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s even better. Before kids you’re self conscious and worry too much about making sure the man is happy. After kids, I knew my body looked like hell, and I knew what I wanted. So my inhibitions were lowered and I could actually enjoy it.

NP. I wish I could be like this, and maybe I can. I haven't gotten back up on that horse yet. But I am so self-conscious about my body.

[Anonymous]

For goodness sake! A reasonable guy will not be phased by it. My gf has a c section scar and don’t give it a thought. It’s not an issue. If it is then dump him.

[Anonymous]

Keep the lights dim.
Red lights always help hide flaws.
LED lights are a no-no.

[Anonymous]

Men do not care what your body looks like. They are just so happy to be having sex that they don’t even notice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men do not care what your body looks like. They are just so happy to be having sex that they don’t even notice.

Are you a man or a woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men do not care what your body looks like. They are just so happy to be having sex that they don’t even notice.

That's not true at all. What is true is that a man will.find a thousand things to love about your body and not really care about the specific and few things y'all are insecure about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men do not care what your body looks like. They are just so happy to be having sex that they don’t even notice.

Ummmmmm no, just no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men do not care what your body looks like. They are just so happy to be having sex that they don’t even notice.

That's not true at all. What is true is that a man will.find a thousand things to love about your body and not really care about the specific and few things y'all are insecure about.

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