I paid our CC bill using my husband's checking account
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As he keeps using the CC and not making timely payments.
He found out and lost his mind with anger. He said I need to transfer him the $500 immediately and he is going to dispute this charge on his account and he will call a lawyer and sue me. I...transferred him his $500. We were supposed to attend a wedding together this evening. He left by himself. What in the world has gotten into him? 
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Anonymous
| Troll harder. |
Anonymous
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Wait what? Your husband isn’t paying bus bill on time (not sure if you are both on the account) so you…paid the bill? Using “his” money to pay “his” credit card bill…and then he storms off in a snit demanding your money to pay his bill and then f—s off manipulatively leaving you at home for a *wedding*?
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Is he a) actually pissed you looked at his card expenses or bank account and could see what he was spending on that he didn’t want you to see, and/or b) being an emotional and financial abuser? DTMFA. |
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He's defensive (to the level of irrationality) about his failures to pay the card. This assumes you have a mutual understanding that he is supposed to do that. If you don't, then how is the card meant to be paid? Either way, one of you is not living up to the agreed process for paying off that card.
The intensity of the reaction indicates a larger personality defect, though, and that's likely something for counseling. You should go alone if he won't go by himself or together with you. |
Anonymous
| Only $500? |
Anonymous
| I truly don’t understand what happened here. |
Anonymous
| I would suspect he is cheating. |
Anonymous
Pretty common issue for lower income couples. |
Anonymous
| If you don't have a joint checking account, you aren't in a real marriage. |
Anonymous
| Either this is madeup or the H is seriously mental, and W is probably contributing to it. I don't even understand what it means for spouses to have separate bills and separate money. By law, marriage makes it joint. And even if it didn't, why would you bother getting married? |
Anonymous
WTF kind of trashy relationship is this?? |
Anonymous
What kind of relationship do you have where finances aren’t in joint accounts? |
Anonymous
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Who’s he going to dispute it with? The bank? They’re going to laugh at him if they even do anything.
You gotta call him on his bluff, babe. |
Anonymous
| I actually don’t think it is strange to be married and have separate accounts. I’m more concerned about how extreme his reaction is and the fact he asked for hey money to pay him back for paying his card. |
Anonymous
Well holy shit that came out of nowhere. Projection much? |