s/o how did your office crush / EA / PA end?
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Anonymous
| It sounds like most of them end when one of the parties reduce contact / take another job to preserve their marriage. |
Anonymous
| All this stupidity ends the same: someone gets bored, caught, and/or hurt. |
Anonymous
| How did yours end, OP? |
Anonymous
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Left my spouse to be with AP. Worst idea ever. Out of the frying pan and into the fire, as they say.
No matter who you are with, there will be problems. |
Anonymous
| Big crush on my kind, gentle, supportive, awesome married supervisor. He doesn't reciprocate, which is a relief, so I am just enjoying the crush and simply not acting on it. I don't think it will evolve into an EA. |
Anonymous
Same here, except my supervisor is hot AF, brash, and hilarious. But his girlfriend is basically a supermodel and I am the polar opposite of that. So no reciprocation is ever going to happen, which is a relief. But the spice he has added to my fantasy life is immeasurable. |
Anonymous
Leave him and his family the fk alone. He’s not reciprocating. I have some respect. |
Anonymous
| I’m single and my boss is super hot but married. I dream of him bending me over my desk but it will never happen. I’m moving to a different department in two weeks and that will make a difference. |
Anonymous
| ended with a broken heart |
Anonymous
What happened? |
Anonymous
| There's a big difference between a crush and an EA/PA. For the most part, I think a crush is harmless as long as it does not get in the way of anyone doing their job in a fair and impartial manner. |
Anonymous
Your partner probably disagrees. A crush takes energy out of the relationship. |
Anonymous
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I don't even know what EA or PA means? From the context of comments it is some kind of AP?
At any rate, I had a very serious work crush 20 years ago. We are together and happily married. |
Anonymous
EA- emotional affair PA- physical affair AP- affair partner |
Anonymous
But this wasn't a crush on a married person that may have evolved into an emotional or physical affair, right? |