When to transition from a harness car seat to a booster

[Anonymous]

DD 7 almost 8 floats right around 40-43 lbs on a good day and is 44' in. She is currently in a Diono Radian 3RXT SafePlus. She hasn't expressed the need to move to a booster as of yet. We were in an accident (very minor one) last year so of course, safety come first. Being that she is on the small size, is there an "age" limit to be in a harnessed seat?

How many others here still have their 7 or 8 year old in a harnessed seat. How long before I transition her to a booster? I don't feel she is ready with her current height/weight.

[Anonymous]

Our car seat converts to a high back booster so at 7 we did that. Exact same seat but removed the harness and switched to the seat belt. We decided she was "ready" based on her using a booster in her grandparents' car (for a few around town trips) and following all rules for using a booster and seat belt and being able evaluate and see that the seat belt was hitting her correctly on her lap and shoulder.

She never falls asleep in the car (I wish she would but she has not done it more than twice since she was 3.

I would consider reinstalling the harness if we went on a road trip at this age just for extra safety on the trip. We didn't switch to the seatbelt until our summer travel was done so that I wouldn't stress about it during a bunch of high speed highway travel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our car seat converts to a high back booster so at 7 we did that. Exact same seat but removed the harness and switched to the seat belt. We decided she was "ready" based on her using a booster in her grandparents' car (for a few around town trips) and following all rules for using a booster and seat belt and being able evaluate and see that the seat belt was hitting her correctly on her lap and shoulder.

She never falls asleep in the car (I wish she would but she has not done it more than twice since she was 3.

I would consider reinstalling the harness if we went on a road trip at this age just for extra safety on the trip. We didn't switch to the seatbelt until our summer travel was done so that I wouldn't stress about it during a bunch of high speed highway travel.

Thanks. We have never taken a trip with her longer than 2 hours. What is her height/weight if you don't mind? Did she express about wanting to fully transition?
I understand about reinstalling it. With my daughter still being somewhat small, its a very difficult decision to move her into a booster seat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DD 7 almost 8 floats right around 40-43 lbs on a good day and is 44' in. She is currently in a Diono Radian 3RXT SafePlus. She hasn't expressed the need to move to a booster as of yet. We were in an accident (very minor one) last year so of course, safety come first. Being that she is on the small size, is there an "age" limit to be in a harnessed seat?

How many others here still have their 7 or 8 year old in a harnessed seat. How long before I transition her to a booster? I don't feel she is ready with her current height/weight.

This is a good age to switch to a booster. Have never seen a child over 5 in a harness to be honest. It seems like it would be less safe to have a child strapped in that way at such a big age because it must be so uncomfortable.

When my children were old enough to secretly unbuckle themselves from their appliance because of extreme discomfort, I then knew to switch to the next appliance.

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Anonymous wrote:DD 7 almost 8 floats right around 40-43 lbs on a good day and is 44' in. She is currently in a Diono Radian 3RXT SafePlus. She hasn't expressed the need to move to a booster as of yet. We were in an accident (very minor one) last year so of course, safety come first. Being that she is on the small size, is there an "age" limit to be in a harnessed seat?

How many others here still have their 7 or 8 year old in a harnessed seat. How long before I transition her to a booster? I don't feel she is ready with her current height/weight.

This is a good age to switch to a booster. Have never seen a child over 5 in a harness to be honest. It seems like it would be less safe to have a child strapped in that way at such a big age because it must be so uncomfortable.

When my children were old enough to secretly unbuckle themselves from their appliance because of extreme discomfort, I then knew to switch to the next appliance.

I have asked her countless times if she is "comfy" and its always a yes. She has never said that she wants to move to a regular seat. She can still unbuckle herself if she chooses to but I typically do if for her.

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Anonymous wrote:Our car seat converts to a high back booster so at 7 we did that. Exact same seat but removed the harness and switched to the seat belt. We decided she was "ready" based on her using a booster in her grandparents' car (for a few around town trips) and following all rules for using a booster and seat belt and being able evaluate and see that the seat belt was hitting her correctly on her lap and shoulder.

She never falls asleep in the car (I wish she would but she has not done it more than twice since she was 3.

I would consider reinstalling the harness if we went on a road trip at this age just for extra safety on the trip. We didn't switch to the seatbelt until our summer travel was done so that I wouldn't stress about it during a bunch of high speed highway travel.

Thanks. We have never taken a trip with her longer than 2 hours. What is her height/weight if you don't mind? Did she express about wanting to fully transition?
I understand about reinstalling it. With my daughter still being somewhat small, its a very difficult decision to move her into a booster seat.

45 lbs and 46 inches. So a little taller and bigger than your kid. Perhaps give it a few months and then take a look.

For us the key to transition was height and maturity. Seatbelts are incredibly safe but they must be worn properly and they must hit the person at the right parts of the body. So we wouldn't consider it until she could sit in a booster with a seatbelt and have it hit correctly across her shoulder and chest and lap. We also needed her to be mature enough to understand that she needed to wear the seatbelt properly and couldn't shift the shoulder belt around or lean on it or whatever. It has to stay in place. She was highly motivated because she was the last of her friends to transition to a booster. She's honestly more vigilant about it than we are at this point.

The high back booster helps a lot because it will position the belt -- while she'd be tall enough even with a backless booster we like that the high back has a thread for the shoulder belt that ensures it always crosses her correctly. This does make it slightly more annoying to latch though -- it took several months for her to be able to buckle her seatbelt on her own even though she'd been buckling her own harness for a couple years. It takes some getting used to how much slack you need to get the belt through the correct parts of the booster and she has to buckle it "blind" because of how close the belt latch is to the seat. So we did it for her for a while talking her through it and then she did it with a double check from us for a while and now she does it on her own with us just giving it a quick once over from the front seat and needing to hear the click of the the latch.

It's way easier for her getting out of the car.

I don't think there's a wrong answer as long as she's in a seat appropriate to her size with a properly rated belt. Seatbelts are incredibly safe when used properly. Honestly the biggest loss of safety for kids is moving from back facing to front facing -- we'd all be a lot safer in vehicles if we were back facing. If you made that transition okay then this one is actually less significant provided she meets the height and weight requirements for whatever seat and belt combo she's in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our car seat converts to a high back booster so at 7 we did that. Exact same seat but removed the harness and switched to the seat belt. We decided she was "ready" based on her using a booster in her grandparents' car (for a few around town trips) and following all rules for using a booster and seat belt and being able evaluate and see that the seat belt was hitting her correctly on her lap and shoulder.

She never falls asleep in the car (I wish she would but she has not done it more than twice since she was 3.

I would consider reinstalling the harness if we went on a road trip at this age just for extra safety on the trip. We didn't switch to the seatbelt until our summer travel was done so that I wouldn't stress about it during a bunch of high speed highway travel.

Thanks. We have never taken a trip with her longer than 2 hours. What is her height/weight if you don't mind? Did she express about wanting to fully transition?
I understand about reinstalling it. With my daughter still being somewhat small, its a very difficult decision to move her into a booster seat.

45 lbs and 46 inches. So a little taller and bigger than your kid. Perhaps give it a few months and then take a look.

For us the key to transition was height and maturity. Seatbelts are incredibly safe but they must be worn properly and they must hit the person at the right parts of the body. So we wouldn't consider it until she could sit in a booster with a seatbelt and have it hit correctly across her shoulder and chest and lap. We also needed her to be mature enough to understand that she needed to wear the seatbelt properly and couldn't shift the shoulder belt around or lean on it or whatever. It has to stay in place. She was highly motivated because she was the last of her friends to transition to a booster. She's honestly more vigilant about it than we are at this point.

The high back booster helps a lot because it will position the belt -- while she'd be tall enough even with a backless booster we like that the high back has a thread for the shoulder belt that ensures it always crosses her correctly. This does make it slightly more annoying to latch though -- it took several months for her to be able to buckle her seatbelt on her own even though she'd been buckling her own harness for a couple years. It takes some getting used to how much slack you need to get the belt through the correct parts of the booster and she has to buckle it "blind" because of how close the belt latch is to the seat. So we did it for her for a while talking her through it and then she did it with a double check from us for a while and now she does it on her own with us just giving it a quick once over from the front seat and needing to hear the click of the the latch.

It's way easier for her getting out of the car.

I don't think there's a wrong answer as long as she's in a seat appropriate to her size with a properly rated belt. Seatbelts are incredibly safe when used properly. Honestly the biggest loss of safety for kids is moving from back facing to front facing -- we'd all be a lot safer in vehicles if we were back facing. If you made that transition okay then this one is actually less significant provided she meets the height and weight requirements for whatever seat and belt combo she's in.

Thanks! Not too much bigger than my daughter. You probably have difficulties finding clothes in her size as I do here right? Do you recall when you turned her to forward facing? I believe the seat we have now should last quite a while until we decide to transition her. The sad thing is, she is still in the range to rear face in this seat and she is almost 8! Knowing her, she would think it was the funniest thing in the world if she got in the car and her seat was back to rear facing. She would hop in no problem. Granted we turned her right around 2 or 3 but it just puts it into perspective on her size. She is mature in some ways but immature in others. We were in a minor accident last year so I think that plays a roll into why I would like to wait. I just don't want her to be the only 8 year old in a harnessed seat but....I just want her to be safe.
Once I unbuckle her, she can get in and out without any issues. She did try sitting on seat a couple times and she immediately complained that she could see over the front seat! haha

[Anonymous]

I went by the weight recommended in the car seat manual, which was 50lb. Also have a Diono (different model) that converts to a high back booster. My slim child had to wait until almost 8 to reach that weight despite being taller than average.

[Anonymous]

It's not age, it's size. We switched at 40lbs.

[Anonymous]

Our tiny 9 year old in third grade is in a five point harness. She’s only 45lbs. Our seat goes up to 55lbs so she’ll be in it awhile longer.

[Anonymous]

Our 6 year old is in the harness and probably will be until 8.

[Anonymous]

Keep her in the harness. I would be ok with a high back booster in friends cars now and again as she’s over 40lbs but every time you go up to the next seat you lose protection.
Don’t rush it. My kid was large for her age and sat in a booster until she was 9.5. My rear seat belts come out high and are not adjustable.
I’m also a car seat tech.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our car seat converts to a high back booster so at 7 we did that. Exact same seat but removed the harness and switched to the seat belt. We decided she was "ready" based on her using a booster in her grandparents' car (for a few around town trips) and following all rules for using a booster and seat belt and being able evaluate and see that the seat belt was hitting her correctly on her lap and shoulder.

She never falls asleep in the car (I wish she would but she has not done it more than twice since she was 3.

I would consider reinstalling the harness if we went on a road trip at this age just for extra safety on the trip. We didn't switch to the seatbelt until our summer travel was done so that I wouldn't stress about it during a bunch of high speed highway travel.

Thanks. We have never taken a trip with her longer than 2 hours. What is her height/weight if you don't mind? Did she express about wanting to fully transition?
I understand about reinstalling it. With my daughter still being somewhat small, its a very difficult decision to move her into a booster seat.

45 lbs and 46 inches. So a little taller and bigger than your kid. Perhaps give it a few months and then take a look.

For us the key to transition was height and maturity. Seatbelts are incredibly safe but they must be worn properly and they must hit the person at the right parts of the body. So we wouldn't consider it until she could sit in a booster with a seatbelt and have it hit correctly across her shoulder and chest and lap. We also needed her to be mature enough to understand that she needed to wear the seatbelt properly and couldn't shift the shoulder belt around or lean on it or whatever. It has to stay in place. She was highly motivated because she was the last of her friends to transition to a booster. She's honestly more vigilant about it than we are at this point.

The high back booster helps a lot because it will position the belt -- while she'd be tall enough even with a backless booster we like that the high back has a thread for the shoulder belt that ensures it always crosses her correctly. This does make it slightly more annoying to latch though -- it took several months for her to be able to buckle her seatbelt on her own even though she'd been buckling her own harness for a couple years. It takes some getting used to how much slack you need to get the belt through the correct parts of the booster and she has to buckle it "blind" because of how close the belt latch is to the seat. So we did it for her for a while talking her through it and then she did it with a double check from us for a while and now she does it on her own with us just giving it a quick once over from the front seat and needing to hear the click of the the latch.

It's way easier for her getting out of the car.

I don't think there's a wrong answer as long as she's in a seat appropriate to her size with a properly rated belt. Seatbelts are incredibly safe when used properly. Honestly the biggest loss of safety for kids is moving from back facing to front facing -- we'd all be a lot safer in vehicles if we were back facing. If you made that transition okay then this one is actually less significant provided she meets the height and weight requirements for whatever seat and belt combo she's in.

Thanks! Not too much bigger than my daughter. You probably have difficulties finding clothes in her size as I do here right? Do you recall when you turned her to forward facing? I believe the seat we have now should last quite a while until we decide to transition her. The sad thing is, she is still in the range to rear face in this seat and she is almost 8! Knowing her, she would think it was the funniest thing in the world if she got in the car and her seat was back to rear facing. She would hop in no problem. Granted we turned her right around 2 or 3 but it just puts it into perspective on her size. She is mature in some ways but immature in others. We were in a minor accident last year so I think that plays a roll into why I would like to wait. I just don't want her to be the only 8 year old in a harnessed seat but....I just want her to be safe.
Once I unbuckle her, she can get in and out without any issues. She did try sitting on seat a couple times and she immediately complained that she could see over the front seat! haha

IS she the only 8-year old you know in a harnessed seat?

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Anonymous wrote:Our tiny 9 year old in third grade is in a five point harness. She’s only 45lbs. Our seat goes up to 55lbs so she’ll be in it awhile longer.

Just curious, how long did it take for her to reach 45 lbs? DD almost 8 is just barely above 40 lbs. She still has 4-5T shorts that she still easily fits in!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our car seat converts to a high back booster so at 7 we did that. Exact same seat but removed the harness and switched to the seat belt. We decided she was "ready" based on her using a booster in her grandparents' car (for a few around town trips) and following all rules for using a booster and seat belt and being able evaluate and see that the seat belt was hitting her correctly on her lap and shoulder.

She never falls asleep in the car (I wish she would but she has not done it more than twice since she was 3.

I would consider reinstalling the harness if we went on a road trip at this age just for extra safety on the trip. We didn't switch to the seatbelt until our summer travel was done so that I wouldn't stress about it during a bunch of high speed highway travel.

Thanks. We have never taken a trip with her longer than 2 hours. What is her height/weight if you don't mind? Did she express about wanting to fully transition?
I understand about reinstalling it. With my daughter still being somewhat small, its a very difficult decision to move her into a booster seat.

45 lbs and 46 inches. So a little taller and bigger than your kid. Perhaps give it a few months and then take a look.

For us the key to transition was height and maturity. Seatbelts are incredibly safe but they must be worn properly and they must hit the person at the right parts of the body. So we wouldn't consider it until she could sit in a booster with a seatbelt and have it hit correctly across her shoulder and chest and lap. We also needed her to be mature enough to understand that she needed to wear the seatbelt properly and couldn't shift the shoulder belt around or lean on it or whatever. It has to stay in place. She was highly motivated because she was the last of her friends to transition to a booster. She's honestly more vigilant about it than we are at this point.

The high back booster helps a lot because it will position the belt -- while she'd be tall enough even with a backless booster we like that the high back has a thread for the shoulder belt that ensures it always crosses her correctly. This does make it slightly more annoying to latch though -- it took several months for her to be able to buckle her seatbelt on her own even though she'd been buckling her own harness for a couple years. It takes some getting used to how much slack you need to get the belt through the correct parts of the booster and she has to buckle it "blind" because of how close the belt latch is to the seat. So we did it for her for a while talking her through it and then she did it with a double check from us for a while and now she does it on her own with us just giving it a quick once over from the front seat and needing to hear the click of the the latch.

It's way easier for her getting out of the car.

I don't think there's a wrong answer as long as she's in a seat appropriate to her size with a properly rated belt. Seatbelts are incredibly safe when used properly. Honestly the biggest loss of safety for kids is moving from back facing to front facing -- we'd all be a lot safer in vehicles if we were back facing. If you made that transition okay then this one is actually less significant provided she meets the height and weight requirements for whatever seat and belt combo she's in.

Thanks! Not too much bigger than my daughter. You probably have difficulties finding clothes in her size as I do here right? Do you recall when you turned her to forward facing? I believe the seat we have now should last quite a while until we decide to transition her. The sad thing is, she is still in the range to rear face in this seat and she is almost 8! Knowing her, she would think it was the funniest thing in the world if she got in the car and her seat was back to rear facing. She would hop in no problem. Granted we turned her right around 2 or 3 but it just puts it into perspective on her size. She is mature in some ways but immature in others. We were in a minor accident last year so I think that plays a roll into why I would like to wait. I just don't want her to be the only 8 year old in a harnessed seat but....I just want her to be safe.
Once I unbuckle her, she can get in and out without any issues. She did try sitting on seat a couple times and she immediately complained that she could see over the front seat! haha

IS she the only 8-year old you know in a harnessed seat?

Until I had others here tell me that theirs is still on one as well. Personally yes, none of her friends still ride in one.

I wish there was another way to communicate other than here with other moms and discuss in more detail about this.