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| Our school didn’t have one for returning families. I probably won’t go to back to school night |
| DC is a 7th grader and DH went. Parents had chance to go to each classrooms ( the courses your DC is taking), and each teacher gave a presentation for something like their policy and calendar of events etc. It’s worth going especially if your DC us new to the school ( 7th grader). |
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I go to scope out the competition
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Yes, it was surprising to me to hear what teachers expected parents to do. I had thought middle school would be all hands off.
Also helpful to learn about basic expectations so when kid says repeatedly "I have no homework" or "I need to be on the computer for five hours tonight because I have so much homework," I have a better understanding of the more likely scenario. And good to learn basic policies about things like cell phones, chatGPT, grammarly, etc. |
| I went for 7th grade. I don’t know if they have them for 8… if they do, I’ll go again. I like to get a feel for the teachers and expectations of the kids. |
| I went. It was hectic. The bell rang every 10 minutes and all parents had to switch to next period. The poor teachers couldn’t even complete their slide presentations. There was no time to meet the teacher and shake hands. There was no time to ask a question. The principal swept the halls and told everyone to leave at 8pm. Parking was a mess. |
| It seems a message to your kids that you value school. It's also nice to put faces to names you keep hearing about. |
This was our experience at high school recently. It was totally chaotic and ridiculous as each teacher got cut off and would keep speaking, making us late for the next session. We didn’t learn anything except maybe which teachers are organized and which ones are going to be flops. There’s always 1-2 flops. |
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If you are anxious about their school, it helps to see the teachers and classes. If not, you can skip, there's no insider info being shared
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I would go for this info alone. Really helpful to level set and to make sure you communicate where your kid needs to way more on top of things (asking questions by email for paper trail etc). Most teachers are lovely and we haven’t had many issues. |