My 20 year old daughter was just diagnosed with genital herpes at an urgent care and has been started on medication.
She is devastated and reeling. I don't know anything about this illness. I just read that 20% of college students have genital herpes? I want to be sure she is getting the best advice and most up to date information. Should she see her regular gyn (whom she doesn't like) or are there people in the DC area who specialize in treatment for this? |
I'm sorry she is going though this, but it talks about her trust in you when she shared this news. Some people have it just once and never again though they cont being carriers, some people get outbreaks often and usually are on Valcyclovir daily to prevent it.It could be caused by either HSV1 or 2-she can get tested now as her titers are probably the highest one first outbreak. Is your family prone to oral mouth sores?
I dont have genital herpes but have only had a mouth sore once in my life and never again. |
Yes, half of us in the family get canker sores, but never her to be honest. And never in the genital area...
We will get the results of which type of herpes it is soon, I think. She doesn't have the test results definitively yet but her provider said she was 100% confident these were herpes symptoms. |
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/18/well/herpes-treatment-stigma.html
If it is this common, why isn't it more routinely tested for? |
Kudos to you for being supportive! It will make a difference for her now and long term.
There are a lot of HSV support groups, online and IRL. Here’s a start: https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/herpes-support-groups/#:~:text=Online%20Support%20Communities,fear%2C%20shame%2C%20&%20stigma! Treatment is very good now. She will do great. |
Other than anti-virals (such as Valtrex) there is really nothing. |
It doesn’t kill anyone (unless it’s actually causing Alzheimer’s) and isn’t curable. |
There are innovative drugs for HPV in clinical trials right now, so we should have something on the horizon. |
HPV can lead to cervical, anal and oral cancers, and are deadly. While some strains are low risk, to say it isn't deadly is naive. |
Valtrex is the only drug that treats HSV 1 and 2. To confirm the diagnosis your daughter should seek antibody testing for both HSV 1 and 2. |
We are not talking about HPV. |
HPV is not HSV |
your body can fight off HPV--I had it but not anymore, I dont know if your body can fight off HSV -as of right now it is believed to stay dormant in your system forever |
HPV is genital warts, HSV is herpes. You are getting them confused. |
Her gyn ought to be sufficient. She needs guidance on best practices not to spread it to others. Sorry |