Since it is neglectful per se in Maryland to have a 6 year old out of a parent's sight at any time, that's the "some neglect" right there. But CPS found no other neglect, presumably. |
NP here. I don't want the system to tell me how to raise my kids and at what ages they think it is okay for my child. Kids in MCPS walk to school sometimes up to a mile away. They do not need to go assisted with a parent and many of them do not. Many walk alone, many with friends, many with siblings. If the kids can walk to school, they can walk to a park, to a friends house, to a store, or anywhere else they want to go. There is no set law in MC that says they can not. These parents have done nothing wrong and I for one think CPS is wasting their time fighting this, when like you said, there are better battles to fight. How about if CPS wants to cry neglect on parents like this, THEY go and change the regulations first and then start hunting kids down and harassing them with legal cause. Because until them, my kids are still walking to the bus stop and to the park on their own. |
No such law is in place at this time. So there is no neglect, just an opinion by a broken system. |
Yep. And I'm not betting on that winning. On the other hand, judges often substitute their own feelings for the law, so you never know! |
Yes, I am okay with that, because if that didn't happen then Child protective services would miss a lot more cases of abuse them they miss now. And they miss plenty now |
You are clearly not a lawyer, and reading must not be your strong suit. |
Your understanding of the law is incomplete, to put it generously. Please go back and read the very thoughtful and comprehensive post on what the applicable regulations are. |
You just don't get it. And yes, we do need some regulations as to what can and cannot with their kids -- we do. People do not mind that their are car seat laws or leaving kids alone in a car, etc. . I let my kids do stuff that technically may be against the regs and if I got called out on it -- I'd get over it and comply. Why? Because I know that I am responsible, but their are a lot of other people that are not and it is not going to kill me or my kids to not walk to Starbucks by themselves. Folks get pissed because things are no longer old-school and neighbors are not friendly and looking out, but as soon as someone does -- there is hell to pay. These parents are loud mouth grand standers who are more interested in a cause then the possibility of losing their kids. Horrible execution on their part, so much else they could have done to change the regs if they disagree. Just another example of the privileged, all about me, entitlement epidemic in this area. |
I understood they are suing MPS and CPS for holding their children for too long without calling the parents. If they address the laws and regulations as well, so much the better. Anyway, if and when suit is filed, we'll all find out what and whom they are suing. |
I am sad to live in a county that does not allow kids to walk to and from a park without getting paranoid people calling 911 and getting pulled over by police. My siblings and I definitely were this age on our own playing outside daily. And not right in our front yard. As soon as the training wheels were off, we were free to ride to friends homes, the park, the baseball field, and the convenience store. The last 3 were at least a half mile away and the store was crossing a busy 2 lane road. We didn't have cell phones, we had watches and were told what time to be home. Made a lot of friends and had a lot of fun. Great childhood. Kids these days are so coddled and structured it is scary. And the fact that so many of you think that walking a mile back home from a park is abuse is even scarier. |
I live in Virginia, where we are able to get by without these regulations. Of all the reasons to not live in Maryland, this was not previously on my list, but it is now. |
I don't presume that. I don't presume there is. Neither you nor I know what the 10 yo and 6yo told CPS. |
unsubstantiated = not established as valid or genuine ? unsubstantiated allegations http://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/unsubstantiated What definition does CPS use? And no, merely being a mile away from home does not constitute neglect. |
Usually I don't put "friendly and looking out" in the same sentence with "calling 911 on". |
What deal did they sign? I agree that it's a waste of taxpayer money and CPS time, though. CPS should stop wasting their time and taxpayer money on this and (as you say) get worked up about kids who are really in trouble. |