Messed up situation

Anonymous
My daughter is with a man that was dealing he got our house busted an he's looking at up to 30 got my daughter charged with same thing but since she's never been in any trouble she most likely will get probation Everytime she tells him she's done he threatens telling lies to CPS to try to get her child took this child is well taken care of by her an myself she wants for nothing an is babied to no end he I st can't stand the thought of not having my daughter around to abuse which he has numerous times mentally an physically an there are police reports to back that up even has threaten all of us what if anything can we do she wants to go to the detective an tell him that she's being threatened an that it was all him doing the dealing but again he threaten telling them it was all her which they know better but that's how he is working it I'm afraid if he keeps on something bad is going to happen because he can't keep putting his hands on her we are all done with his threats an abuse
Anonymous
I can’t quite follow your post, but if she is in the right, then let him threaten all he wants. She should document everything and just tell the truth.


She can seek the assistance of a women’s shelter. They can offer her a safe space and likely legal resources if he was the one “dealing”. She needs to leave him for the safety of her and her child. That said, that is often one of the most most dangerous times to be a female. If she can get the assistance of a shelter or similar group, they can advise on how to stay protected.
Anonymous
If he has threatened you, take out a restraining order so he can’t come to your house. Even if he calls cps they won’t remove your granddaughter. Is he the father? If not just ignore him.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I can’t quite follow your post, but if she is in the right, then let him threaten all he wants. She should document everything and just tell the truth.


She can seek the assistance of a women’s shelter. They can offer her a safe space and likely legal resources if he was the one “dealing”. She needs to leave him for the safety of her and her child. That said, that is often one of the most most dangerous times to be a female. If she can get the assistance of a shelter or similar group, they can advise on how to stay protected.


This^. Be brave and help her get out of this mess. Its tough but not tougher than being with an abusive criminal, she can do it.
Anonymous
Yes, your daughter should go to the detective and have her tell them everything she knows. Also get a restraining order against him.

I am sorry you are in this position. Stay strong.
Anonymous
To answer the question…yes it’s a messed up situation.

Thread over.
Anonymous
Sorry to hear this, I would also get her a criminal defense attorney. You just want to be very careful speaking to the police. I know she's needing help, but seek counsel.
Anonymous
She needs a lawyer. She should not speak with police without her lawyer present.
Anonymous
I hope cps takes their kids. You are a failure as a parent.
Anonymous
Can anyone translate this into a couple of coherent paragraphs complete with punctuation?
Anonymous
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Anonymous
This sounds really scary, I'm sorry this is happening. This somewhat reminds me of Kemba Smith. I was in college when this happened and I remember everyone was talking about it on campus. OP, please talk to a laywer before you do anything. BET made a movie; here's the trailer.

Anonymous
She needs to go to police.

You all need restraining orders.

She needs to straighten her life out, focus on raising her kid right, and pick better partners.

You just support all that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I hope cps takes their kids. You are a failure as a parent.


So unhelpful to this fragile family.

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