Men, 2nd date?

[Anonymous]

What are some reasons or feelings for you to ask a woman out on a 2nd date?

[Anonymous]

Because you want to have sex with her. What else would there be?

[Anonymous]

Fun and intelligent conversation. This assumes I had met her before and really knew what she looked like. Smart, fun and attractive women are a real turn on.

[Anonymous]

If the first date was fun and not awkward.

[Anonymous]

95% of the time it's because she did NOT send the "sorry no chemistry" text after the first date, lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because you want to have sex with her. What else would there be?

Yep.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:95% of the time it's because she did NOT send the "sorry no chemistry" text after the first date, lol.

I got one of these one time years ago and lo and behold several weeks later I got a " hey sorry, we should go out to dinner again".

I thought of responding " Do you want another nice, free meal.again?"', but instead just didn't respond.

[Anonymous]

I can't imagine sending a text of no chemistry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can't imagine sending a text of no chemistry.

Men and women are wading through this dating pool and dealing with the floaters as they come. I've gotten a text of "no compatibility" after going on 3 dates and a kid's birthday party. We gotta shrug it off and trust our deity of choice that these aren't mistakes but lessons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can't imagine sending a text of no chemistry.

You must be a woman. I assure you that many, many women give that as the reason for no second date. Maybe there's a different "real" reason each time and that's just what they're saying, who knows.

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it - it is what it is. But it was quite often at odds with how I thought the initial date went. We chatted and seemed to have an enjoyable time, parted on friendly terms, and I would have been amenable to further dates. But instead, the "no chemistry" text. Oh well!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because you want to have sex with her. What else would there be?

So true. Listen up, women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because you want to have sex with her. What else would there be?

So true. Listen up, women.

And don't give them what they want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because you want to have sex with her. What else would there be?

So true. Listen up, women.

And don't give them what they want.

so no reason then for him to want a 3rd date

[Anonymous]

It’s very easy to know when two people want a second date.

[Anonymous]

As a woman I never text no chemistry. I could say that I feel more of a friendly vibe than romantic.
Yes, sexual attraction is #1 to me because I have everything else