What jurisdiction, OP?
I will warn you that if things are so challenging now, this may not be a relationship that will go the distance. If you do not have kids together, really consider the likelihood of success. Life throws a lot of curveballs and challenges that we cannot control and that challenge even the most stable of unions.
Gottman relationship therapy is evidence based. Look on their website for a list of providers and for helpful quizzes and relationship advice. I also know many who have found Catholic pre-marriage classes helpful in lending perspective.
Best to you.
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