Where to find a no-strings attached affair partner

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Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

Yeah but the odds are she's going to end up telling your spouse. My sil found out her husband was cheating because the OW went to their home. Sil told the lady, "yes Joe is here". When the lady came in and exchanged words she beat the crap out of her then threw her out of their apartment. The lady pressed charges, but since she came to their home and went inside they were dropped. Sil also got a restraining order on her. Still with her husband, but I think he wears a ankle bracelet, lol...or something similar.

Bah, some men can manage their AP better than that. If you do it right she will have no idea what your real name is or where you live.

You are too funny.

She can read your license plate number and run it. If you're cheating why care if your wife finds out. You're out of the relationship at that point. It's just a matter of time. Then you and AP don't have to hide.

All you have to do is pay $10 and run the cell phone number. Only protection would be to have a burner phone and if you’re that crazy then simply get divorced and be single.

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Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

Yeah but the odds are she's going to end up telling your spouse. My sil found out her husband was cheating because the OW went to their home. Sil told the lady, "yes Joe is here". When the lady came in and exchanged words she beat the crap out of her then threw her out of their apartment. The lady pressed charges, but since she came to their home and went inside they were dropped. Sil also got a restraining order on her. Still with her husband, but I think he wears a ankle bracelet, lol...or something similar.

Bah, some men can manage their AP better than that. If you do it right she will have no idea what your real name is or where you live.

You are too funny.

She can read your license plate number and run it. If you're cheating why care if your wife finds out. You're out of the relationship at that point. It's just a matter of time. Then you and AP don't have to hide.

All you have to do is pay $10 and run the cell phone number. Only protection would be to have a burner phone and if you’re that crazy then simply get divorced and be single.

Never used my phone once.

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Anonymous wrote:I have had luck on Ashley Madison.

Still the best site for affairs. Even better after the big bust. Just have to know how to work it.

How do you work it? Tried it and it has been largely a bomb - advice welcome.

It's about 10 men for every woman on there, if you exclude hookers and bots. Which is fairly representative of real life, for every woman looking to cheat, 10 men are available which is depressing to think that most married men are DTF if the opportunity presents itself. If you are a woman, be prepared to be inundated

Accurate^^. But it’s not depressing for the reason you stated. Most of these men wouldn’t be on AM at all if not for their disinterested wives. The men would happily remain faithful if not for infrequent sex at home. So for men, AM is a marriage survival tactic. The depressing part of this is how few wives actually want to f$k their husbands. That is why every married man in DC is available to any woman who approaches.

Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

The thing is most APs eventually call the wife. Or let her know in some way because they end up jealous. They know their life is crap, when DH leaves it's reminds her she has no one. She knows she's only a hole in the mattress. fyi there's always strings attached. Imo it's never worth my spouse or kids hating me, over a stranger - no way. No pos is worth that. Bruce Hay got what he deserved, cheaters get with other cheaters so no surprise. His wife and kids didn't deserve any of that. He brought criminals into their lives. That's what cheaters do, they are bringing in who knows what kind of element.

You are really just making shit up. None of my APs ever called my wife.

Your wife probably knows you cheat. She may not care or about you like you think. I know a lot of women, and many let the wife know in some way. Even if it's just hang up calls. Many wives check up especially if their spouse travels.

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Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

Yeah but the odds are she's going to end up telling your spouse. My sil found out her husband was cheating because the OW went to their home. Sil told the lady, "yes Joe is here". When the lady came in and exchanged words she beat the crap out of her then threw her out of their apartment. The lady pressed charges, but since she came to their home and went inside they were dropped. Sil also got a restraining order on her. Still with her husband, but I think he wears a ankle bracelet, lol...or something similar.

Bah, some men can manage their AP better than that. If you do it right she will have no idea what your real name is or where you live.

You are too funny.

She can read your license plate number and run it. If you're cheating why care if your wife finds out. You're out of the relationship at that point. It's just a matter of time. Then you and AP don't have to hide.

All you have to do is pay $10 and run the cell phone number. Only protection would be to have a burner phone and if you’re that crazy then simply get divorced and be single.

Never used my phone once.

But then the thrill of the taboo is gone, and then you realize well, you aren't really going to be seen in public anyway because of the shame, and your kids will hate you and hate that person together, that's why APs rarely work as long-term legitimate relationships.

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Anonymous wrote:I have had luck on Ashley Madison.

Still the best site for affairs. Even better after the big bust. Just have to know how to work it.

How do you work it? Tried it and it has been largely a bomb - advice welcome.

It's about 10 men for every woman on there, if you exclude hookers and bots. Which is fairly representative of real life, for every woman looking to cheat, 10 men are available which is depressing to think that most married men are DTF if the opportunity presents itself. If you are a woman, be prepared to be inundated

Accurate^^. But it’s not depressing for the reason you stated. Most of these men wouldn’t be on AM at all if not for their disinterested wives. The men would happily remain faithful if not for infrequent sex at home. So for men, AM is a marriage survival tactic. The depressing part of this is how few wives actually want to f$k their husbands. That is why every married man in DC is available to any woman who approaches.

Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

The thing is most APs eventually call the wife. Or let her know in some way because they end up jealous. They know their life is crap, when DH leaves it's reminds her she has no one. She knows she's only a hole in the mattress. fyi there's always strings attached. Imo it's never worth my spouse or kids hating me, over a stranger - no way. No pos is worth that. Bruce Hay got what he deserved, cheaters get with other cheaters so no surprise. His wife and kids didn't deserve any of that. He brought criminals into their lives. That's what cheaters do, they are bringing in who knows what kind of element.

You are really just making shit up. None of my APs ever called my wife.

Your wife probably knows you cheat. She may not care or about you like you think. I know a lot of women, and many let the wife know in some way. Even if it's just hang up calls. Many wives check up especially if their spouse travels.

Um, no. I’m a woman who cheats and never once thought of contacting my AP’s wife in any way. Not even anonymously or a “hang up” call. No way.

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:
Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

Yeah but the odds are she's going to end up telling your spouse. My sil found out her husband was cheating because the OW went to their home. Sil told the lady, "yes Joe is here". When the lady came in and exchanged words she beat the crap out of her then threw her out of their apartment. The lady pressed charges, but since she came to their home and went inside they were dropped. Sil also got a restraining order on her. Still with her husband, but I think he wears a ankle bracelet, lol...or something similar.

Bah, some men can manage their AP better than that. If you do it right she will have no idea what your real name is or where you live.

You are too funny.

She can read your license plate number and run it. If you're cheating why care if your wife finds out. You're out of the relationship at that point. It's just a matter of time. Then you and AP don't have to hide.

All you have to do is pay $10 and run the cell phone number. Only protection would be to have a burner phone and if you’re that crazy then simply get divorced and be single.

Never used my phone once.

But then the thrill of the taboo is gone, and then you realize well, you aren't really going to be seen in public anyway because of the shame, and your kids will hate you and hate that person together, that's why APs rarely work as long-term legitimate relationships.

Of course his wife could do what a lot of women do. Follow him one day/night, lol. Cheap and effective!

Who knows maybe he's merely a paycheck for his wife. Or she has good life insurance on him, I see it all.

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Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

Yeah but the odds are she's going to end up telling your spouse. My sil found out her husband was cheating because the OW went to their home. Sil told the lady, "yes Joe is here". When the lady came in and exchanged words she beat the crap out of her then threw her out of their apartment. The lady pressed charges, but since she came to their home and went inside they were dropped. Sil also got a restraining order on her. Still with her husband, but I think he wears a ankle bracelet, lol...or something similar.

Bah, some men can manage their AP better than that. If you do it right she will have no idea what your real name is or where you live.

You are too funny.

She can read your license plate number and run it. If you're cheating why care if your wife finds out. You're out of the relationship at that point. It's just a matter of time. Then you and AP don't have to hide.

All you have to do is pay $10 and run the cell phone number. Only protection would be to have a burner phone and if you’re that crazy then simply get divorced and be single.

Never used my phone once.

But then the thrill of the taboo is gone, and then you realize well, you aren't really going to be seen in public anyway because of the shame, and your kids will hate you and hate that person together, that's why APs rarely work as long-term legitimate relationships.

OP here. I’m not looking for a long term relationship. I want to get laid. I want someone to touch me with desire. I could go more in depth but this isn’t the explicit forum.

If you don’t like or crave sex enough to get this, cool. No one is asking you to pursue a NSA affair.

I can’t imagine going without being touched any longer.

[Anonymous]

Good for you OP - whomever you choose will be lucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good for you OP - whomever you choose will be lucky.

Thanks. Playing with Tinder for now.

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Anonymous wrote:Good for you OP - whomever you choose will be lucky.

Thanks. Playing with Tinder for now.

I have no experience there but I don’t go that route since I’ve heard it’s all for ONS. I’ve met all of mine in person but it took time to build. Btw - woman here in a similar situation.

[Anonymous]

Man in a similar situation here.
Does a man in the 30s interest you? Why do you want someone in the 40s?

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Anonymous wrote:Good for you OP - whomever you choose will be lucky.

Thanks. Playing with Tinder for now.

I have no experience there but I don’t go that route since I’ve heard it’s all for ONS. I’ve met all of mine in person but it took time to build. Btw - woman here in a similar situation.

You two should meet for drinks, compare notes!

[Anonymous]

You are playing with fire. There is no way of knowing with any certainty if an affair will be NSA or stay that way

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Anonymous wrote:You are playing with fire. There is no way of knowing with any certainty if an affair will be NSA or stay that way

This is true buts it's much easier for women to find a man for just sex. Make sure he is married and he has no intention of leaving his wife. Your supply of attractive interested men will be much higher if you tell them you don't want to be a homewrecker

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Anonymous wrote:You are playing with fire. There is no way of knowing with any certainty if an affair will be NSA or stay that way

This is true buts it's much easier for women to find a man for just sex. Make sure he is married and he has no intention of leaving his wife. Your supply of attractive interested men will be much higher if you tell them you don't want to be a homewrecker

A lot of single men would also be content just being an AP. Married or single, the key is finding a man that will know his role and stay there.