What would be the major problem with using headphones, though? Nobody cares what your kid is watching, they just don't want to hear it. Seriously, you can get volume limited toddler headphones for like $12 from every Wal-Mart/Target everywhere. Stick them in your bag and when your kid 'needs' a video, pull them out. |
Better yet, learn to parent your child like the multitudes of generations that came before you. Don't be such a lazy, entitled, ass. |
Yeah, that too. |
If we are in a waiting room- whether my kid is watching a screen or I am reading him a book or my kid is being fussy... I DO NOT care about you. Not at all. If you cannot handle a noise in a public environment like that, you are the one with the problem. I would never take my kid outside unless there they were being a serious disruption. |
A toddler throwing a fit and needing to watch a video/play a game at full volume is a serious disruption. It will get you escorted out of a decent number of places. |
Did I say “throwing a fit”? “Full volume”? That’s just hyperbole. Is anyone really watching videos with the volume up to 10? Really? You use hyperbole because you need to exaggerate normal situations to justify your inability to deal with basic life scenarios. |
Oh FFS stop being so dramatic. I have flown with my 3.5 year old on probably around 35 flights and then together with my 2 year on about 15 more. This includes about half that are trans-Pacific flights. It would never occur to me to let them use their tablets at full volume with others around them. The same goes for time spent in hotel executive/club lounges. Please stop acting like full volume on tablets vs your kid screaming are the only 2 options. If you’d taught your kids from the beginning that civilized people don’t blare their devices for the world to hear, then maybe you wouldn’t have that issue. No sympathy here and no excuses. It’s part of parenting in a ~supposedly~ polite society. |
| No headphones, no tablet for DD, no exceptions. People can't escape on a plane or a train, and who on Earth wants to watch 10 episodes of Doc McStuffins? (Besides my kid, obviously.) |
If your child also wants to watch it, isn’t it better if the other child is watching without headphones? |
Seriously. Somehow we went from a parent reading a child a book in a doctors waiting room to blaring videos at full volume in the middle of a nice restaurant. |
You mean having dozens of neighbors and family around who SAH and can watch my children, so I don’t have to bring them to the orthodontist with me? |
You can hire a babysitter, like the rest of us do. The staff are not there to babysit. They will be polite and silently wish that you had gotten hit by a bus on your way in. |
Nope. This thread started with tablets and phones without headphones and a bunch of entitled parents want to make all kinds of arguments about why they just can't take little Johhny out without his videos, but somehow it is impossible to also bring headphones. No books anywhere. |
Lol “noise pollution”. You sound like my crotchety old uncle. Look people, kids exist. As much as some of the parents in this thread say otherwise, ALL children misbehave in public sometimes. ALL kids have been a public disturbance at times. Tablets or not. And No, the mom can’t always take the kid and go home to keep the noise pollution at bay. If it really bothers you so much how about you pack some ear buds and listen to your porn or your cussing music or whatever you like. |
| The bottom line is that it is rude for ANYONE-- child or adult-- to watch a video or listen to music in public without headphones. It is selfishness pure and simple. |