Congratulations OP. You won. Go enjoy life and your family! I hope to be you in a few years |
| Good for you OP! Enjoy your life. |
| What insurance co? |
I’d rather not say, but it’s a very large and well known one. |
| Congrats OP. DH is a newish partner and I hope this will be us in our 50's. |
| I work in a place that has 1000+ employees. In any given year, we see approximately 25 employees retiring. Among those who retire on their own terms, I have never seen any of them regretting his or her decision. On the whole, they literally change, from losing weight to just looking better and healthier being away from work. |
+1. This is huge. Retiring is not just about finances, it's also hugely about the major psychological shift of no longer working, regular social interactions with colleagues, loss of status in the professional community, and lots and lots more time with your spouse. I think if you can downshift to a part-time gig, or take a sabbatical and return part-time, that might be a much better way to ease into retirement and to give you some sense of how you want to spend your time. I know of several couples that separated in retirement because work no longer functioned as a buffer in the marriage. Having earned $1M annually, it strikes me that you probably spent a considerable time at work. How will your wife deal with your new lifestyle? |
| Yay, OP! You made the right choice. |
We’re hoping that the case with DH’s firm. But nothing is in writing — it’s all a handshake agreement. This, we worry. Congrats OP! DH will walk away at 55. |
| Congrats OP. |
Yes, it should be written into the partnership agreement. |