You're right -- I was speaking only about school labels. I know that the autism medical label is a different ball game. Sorry you are going through this. |
Again, you are clueless. I'd say it's very smart on her part. |
| Paranoid is more like it. |
The public schools would not provide any supports to my child. And, if they did it would be a huge fight. We might as well spend the money we'd spend on and attorney or advocate on private school. We are at a small private, with a very small class size where my child is thriving. They are affordable. Why would we leave a good situation to throw our child into a large chaotic system they are not ready for. Where is your logic in that. Diagnosis or not, in theory our insurance would cover services. If you want better coverage, get a better insurance plan. Stop being bitter toward those of us who are getting insurance help when we've worked hard for that coverage. Some of us think through these needs as a possibility when we take jobs, accept insurance, etc. We will transfer to public when our private is no longer an option. Our school only goes has a few primary grades depending on enrollment, so that is why. After 8, my child will have progressed enough to be ok. You don't get it do you? |
Thank you. Why would someone want their child labeled through the school when it will be carried with them throughout their educational career. |
Except it won't if he's truly not autistic. D'nile ain't just a river... |
If my child were autistic, no big deal. Why are you so insistent every child has autism? |
Again, you are clueless. Why are you so hateful? You've been a total bully on this thread. |
Not the poster you are replying to but stop making having an autism diagnosis into something terrible. There are parents on this thread whose kids are autistic unlike yours who was misdiagnosed who WILL carry the label throughout their school career. What grade is your child in? If he isn't even in K yet, you really have no idea what you are talking about. |
Parents want accurate diagnosis and labels for their kids so they get services targeted for their needs. On our late talking message boards, we have had several children's school careers derailed with a wrong autism educational label. |
| Wow, nothing like a little hyperbole. Folks, you can have a strong IEP no matter which designation it falls under. The people utterly consumed with the "label" seem more at risk of derailing their children's development than the school is. |
No hyperbole. Real-life experiences of many families I know. |
Well, the research says that parental involvement is a huge predictor for a child's success: http://www.azed.gov/special-education/files/2014/05/f1.7-predictors.pdf http://www.accessandequity.org/blog/archives/1318 So it's really not the label that matters. |
Labels do matter. Great if you have not had negative experiences because of them but when docs read my child's records before seeing him they expect a very different child and initially treat him as such. Then, they get confused and it becomes a long discussion about the "autism" rather than why we were there. If your child is autistic, then yes, the label is appropriate but there is a stigma and sadly, my child has felt it more often than not. |
He's in second and no, it isn't something terrible if it is accurate but if it is not accurate and your child is forced into unnecessary therapies, people make assumptions about their functioning, etc., then yes, its a problem. |