Parents are Mental

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Anonymous wrote:Why are parents at the practices of High School age players sitting on chairs inches from the sidelines?

Especially on the inside of the participants fence

OMG

I'm going to 100% guess this is my kids' HS which is known for incredible nepotism and politics.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why are parents at the practices of High School age players sitting on chairs inches from the sidelines?

Especially on the inside of the participants fence

OMG

I'm going to 100% guess this is my kids' HS which is known for incredible nepotism and politics.

^because it has to be private HS or MD ---only ones with Fall season.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:To all those in a tizzy about “wrong side” spectating…Sorry, but not sorry.

I will stand wherever I want…been doing so for many years and I don’t give a rat’s bum what any of y’all think.

If the sideline police want to report me, I’m easy to spot. I stand by the goal line away from everyone and I am very quiet. My kids are defenders and I enjoy watching them play. If that makes me a helicopter parent, then sign me up.

You are part of the problem, it has nothing to do with what comes out of your mouth. Moments get tense for some and you are there just to poke the bear. Just go to your side, I don't care where your kid plays. What's so hard?

Honestly, sounds like you're the problem. If you as an adult can't handle tense moments at a kids soccer game, maybe you should stay home and watch the recording. "Tense moments", how ridiculous. This is a kids game, not the World Cup.

[Anonymous]

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Honestly, sounds like you're the problem. If you as an adult can't handle tense moments at a kids soccer game, maybe you should stay home and watch the recording. "Tense moments", how ridiculous. This is a kids game, not the World Cup.

- 4th team parent

[Anonymous]

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Honestly, sounds like you're the problem. If you as an adult can't handle tense moments at a kids soccer game, maybe you should stay home and watch the recording. "Tense moments", how ridiculous. This is a kids game, not the World Cup.

- 4th team parent

Lol, speaking of mental...

[Anonymous]

Real soccer moms of Loudoun reality show, anyone?

[Anonymous]

Just keep in mind that when your kid is older and playing in tournaments with college coaches in attendance looking to recruit for their programs, those coaches really do check out the parents and which out-of-control parents belong to which player. There is often enough talent to pick from that avoiding a headache parent is a significant consideration. Ask me how I know ...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just keep in mind that when your kid is older and playing in tournaments with college coaches in attendance looking to recruit for their programs, those coaches really do check out the parents and which out-of-control parents belong to which player. There is often enough talent to pick from that avoiding a headache parent is a significant consideration. Ask me how I know ...

I'm sorry your kid didn't get recruited because of your behavior. Thanks for the advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just keep in mind that when your kid is older and playing in tournaments with college coaches in attendance looking to recruit for their programs, those coaches really do check out the parents and which out-of-control parents belong to which player. There is often enough talent to pick from that avoiding a headache parent is a significant consideration. Ask me how I know ...

If I ruined my kids chances of getting recruited because I made his sport about me...well that would be pretty close to rock bottom. Unfortunately, we all see some very strong candidates for this every week.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why are parents at the practices of High School age players sitting on chairs inches from the sidelines?

Especially on the inside of the participants fence

OMG

I'm going to 100% guess this is my kids' HS which is known for incredible nepotism and politics.

PP said HS age (at club teams)

I don't think parents are at school practices, but I may be wrong.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just keep in mind that when your kid is older and playing in tournaments with college coaches in attendance looking to recruit for their programs, those coaches really do check out the parents and which out-of-control parents belong to which player. There is often enough talent to pick from that avoiding a headache parent is a significant consideration. Ask me how I know ...

I'm sorry your kid didn't get recruited because of your behavior. Thanks for the advice.

There are parents out here in the small dmv area that are known trouble.
The coaches talk to each other.

Their kid suffers

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just keep in mind that when your kid is older and playing in tournaments with college coaches in attendance looking to recruit for their programs, those coaches really do check out the parents and which out-of-control parents belong to which player. There is often enough talent to pick from that avoiding a headache parent is a significant consideration. Ask me how I know ...

I'm sorry your kid didn't get recruited because of your behavior. Thanks for the advice.

There are parents out here in the small dmv area that are known trouble.
The coaches talk to each other.

Their kid suffers

ANTHONY!!!!!

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Anonymous wrote:I didn't know it was such a crime to sit on the other side. I just want to watch my kid that plays a forward position. I'll switch sides during half too. I don't yell or scream, at most I'll clap. Now that I know the etiquette, I STILL DON'T CARE. Cry about it.

How big is the field that you can't just sit close to the middle?

Why helicopter over your kid?
You think they won't be fine without your amateur overshadowing?

Because it's crowded in the middle and I don't want to have to put up with bs small talk. I'd like to watch the game in peace. Why does it even matter to you?

If he plays college or goes pro, do you buy front row tickets on both ends of the field so you can switch at halftime?

We're not talking about college or pro are we?

No, we're talking about helicopter parents with bad sideline behavior

1000% I will walk down to the other side to watch my kid if most of the possession is in the other half. The reason I will do that is because the last reason I'm at that game is to worry about you not wanting me to walk down a sideline. I'm there for my kid and to be supportive. How sensitive can you be? It's no wonder most of you folks can't handle this environment and lose your minds. Oh, and there is one other reason...because I LOVE winding up adults who still aren't able to move on from their favorite middle school behaviors. See ya on your side!

I guess that makes me a helicopter parent, but I have never heard that term and I'm not sure why you would think that would bother me. I also don't wear the matching shirts and go to the team dinners with all the other adults. I'm there for my kid to be a good parent instead of being with my clique.

This is the classic narcissism of the "sports parent". This isn't your goal, your team, your win. This is your kid's goal, team, win and they don't need your support. You really need to think and understand this. It's your kid's experience not yours. All of you crazy parents are really all about yourself and won't let your kids have this experience in peace.

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Anonymous wrote:I didn't know it was such a crime to sit on the other side. I just want to watch my kid that plays a forward position. I'll switch sides during half too. I don't yell or scream, at most I'll clap. Now that I know the etiquette, I STILL DON'T CARE. Cry about it.

How big is the field that you can't just sit close to the middle?

Why helicopter over your kid?
You think they won't be fine without your amateur overshadowing?

Because it's crowded in the middle and I don't want to have to put up with bs small talk. I'd like to watch the game in peace. Why does it even matter to you?

If he plays college or goes pro, do you buy front row tickets on both ends of the field so you can switch at halftime?

We're not talking about college or pro are we?

No, we're talking about helicopter parents with bad sideline behavior

1000% I will walk down to the other side to watch my kid if most of the possession is in the other half. The reason I will do that is because the last reason I'm at that game is to worry about you not wanting me to walk down a sideline. I'm there for my kid and to be supportive. How sensitive can you be? It's no wonder most of you folks can't handle this environment and lose your minds. Oh, and there is one other reason...because I LOVE winding up adults who still aren't able to move on from their favorite middle school behaviors. See ya on your side!

I guess that makes me a helicopter parent, but I have never heard that term and I'm not sure why you would think that would bother me. I also don't wear the matching shirts and go to the team dinners with all the other adults. I'm there for my kid to be a good parent instead of being with my clique.

This is the classic narcissism of the "sports parent". This isn't your goal, your team, your win. This is your kid's goal, team, win and they don't need your support. You really need to think and understand this. It's your kid's experience not yours. All of you crazy parents are really all about yourself and won't let your kids have this experience in peace.

When I'm paying for that experience, I'll stand where I please. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just keep in mind that when your kid is older and playing in tournaments with college coaches in attendance looking to recruit for their programs, those coaches really do check out the parents and which out-of-control parents belong to which player. There is often enough talent to pick from that avoiding a headache parent is a significant consideration. Ask me how I know ...

I'm sorry your kid didn't get recruited because of your behavior. Thanks for the advice.

There are parents out here in the small dmv area that are known trouble.
The coaches talk to each other.

Their kid suffers

This is the truth. Anyone who thinks otherwise is naive.