np. if we ever want to get serious about carbon emissions, we'll go to all nuclear power, or mostly all nuclear. in the meantime, it's not worth worrying about because individual lifestyle actions don't matter. and urban dwellers use tons of energy, too. |
Keeping up with the Jonses is valued. |
Yup, NYC faired so we’ll compared to the rest of the country |
For us:
Living in a city was great with no kids. Living in the suburbs in a large house on a large lot with a large yard is so much better now that we have kids. Others may think differently. That's the beauty of choice. |
You don't think city people engage in conspicuous consumption? |
You said EXACTLY what I was about to type. Cities are great for living in an urban setting without kids. But with kids, I can’t imagine living in a city in a crammed condo. I’d rather have some space. The burbs just provide all of that with ease. That’s my main thing. You can’t have your kids playing in an urban setting next to busy roads, no open space to play, all of the pollution, etc. If I’m in the burbs in my house, I can be at a park in a few minutes, then go get groceries from the Whole Foods afterwards, all while being back home and eating all within a span of an hour. I can’t do that In the city because I’m bound by the crappy city traffic and city transportation where this would take 2+ hours. |
Not saying they don't, just mentioning why suburban homes are in more demand than tgey should've been. |
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Interestingly, people are fittest in areas where car ownership is highest. |
I have 100% of this and live in Fairfax County. Your experience might have more to do with your parents than with living in the burbs. |
There are plenty of chores to go around but I don’t want to buy/store/fix a lawnmower. |
I work for a European company. Most of my European co-workers with kids have one car, both parents work and a lot only have one kid. College is only three years and most kids don’t go away to school.
Growing up my parents had four kids. My mom a SAHM. I recall at one point we owned five cars when my sister in grad school, my brother and I in college. My father also owned a business where he stored files and stuff at home. Exactly how are six people with five cars living in a 700sf flat with one parking spot. Growing up none of us went away to school. Cars was to drive to schools and jobs. Yes we bought and insured our own cars. Quite a sight to see 5 cars on driveway where three of them worth less than $1,000 dollars |
I too had many siblings and as much as I love them, I won't recommend it. It can really mess up upbringing of kids and youth as well as retirement of parents. |
I lived in cities, real cities not suburban NW DC, but the nitty gritty urban areas, through my 20s and into mid 30s. Didn't really know much neighbors even though we lived closely in apartments and rowhouses. Have kids and move to suburbs. Suddenly we know a lot of neighbors. That what kids do for you. There's plenty of lonely singles and even isolated families in cities and plenty or blocks and neighborhoods where people never talk to each other. If anything, I found cities the loneliest places. It's easy to get lost in the crowds. |
I’d amend this to say that the city is still great with babies/toddlers. |