Summer is so long and it’s the worst for kids and parents.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
In reality, daycares can’t and won’t be able to adapt to a year round school schedule. Summer camps struggle to find employees when the summer is 8 weeks, can you imagine every 9 weeks finding employees that work full time for three weeks? It’s a logistical nightmare.


Summer camps are usually staffed with older high school students and college students. Older high school students would also be on the same year round schedule so they would be available. Teachers looking for extra work would also be on the same schedule and available. College students, likely not.

On the other hand, different school districts could have different weeks off during the school year, allowing some people to work a job between all the different camps. I remember living in Germany, that each state set the holidays off for their schools and they were staggered so the whole country wasn't on October break at the same time. Here's an example:

Bavaria school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 31 - November 4, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 24, 2022 - January 7, 2023
Winter holiday: --
Bridge days: February 20 - February 24, 2023
Easter holiday: April 3 - April 15, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30 - June 9, 2023
Summer holiday: July 31 - September 11, 2023

Berlin school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 24 - November 5, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 22, 2022 - January 2, 2023
Winter holiday: January 30 - February 4, 2023
Easter holiday: April 3 - April 14, 2023
Bridge day: May 19, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30, 2023
Summer holiday: July 13 - August 25, 2023

Bremen school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 17 - October 29, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 23, 2022 - January 6, 2023
Winter holiday: January 30 - January 31, 2023
Easter holiday: March 27 - April 11, 2023
Bridge day: May 19, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30, 2023
Summer holiday: July 6 - August 16, 2023

Hamburg school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 10 - October 21, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 23, 2022 - January 6, 2023
Winter holiday: January 27, 2023
Easter holiday: March 6 - March 17, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 15 - May 19, 2023
Summer holiday: July 13 - August 23, 2023

Anonymous
Also -- school bus drivers, lunch workers and aides would be available during breaks for extra part time employment around the year long schedule. As would after care teachers.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Speak for yourself. My kids love summer. We have gone on vacation. They have done a few camps. We go to the pool. I don’t work though.

that is a big "though"
Anonymous
I would rather have one less week and I have a week off in the fall.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:It’s too long.
My kids are bored. We don’t have the money for expensive camps, and there isn’t much for tweens/teens.
They could really use some 2 week breaks during the year and have a shorter summer break.


That’s a you problem baby boo

Are you this patronizing in real life as well? And it's clearly an issue for many parents, especially ones who a) are not well off and b) are no SAHM or parents who can WFH.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You need to reevaluate your life if you don’t love ten weeks off. Speak for yourself. Some of us have figured out the balance.

Maybe you’ve over leveraged your big DC life. Get off the treadmill. How many summers left until you die?

um, I am a nurse and I am allowed one week off in the summer. Is that the big DC life you speak of? DCUM is so utterly out of touch with reality.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
In reality, daycares can’t and won’t be able to adapt to a year round school schedule. Summer camps struggle to find employees when the summer is 8 weeks, can you imagine every 9 weeks finding employees that work full time for three weeks? It’s a logistical nightmare.


Summer camps are usually staffed with older high school students and college students. Older high school students would also be on the same year round schedule so they would be available. Teachers looking for extra work would also be on the same schedule and available. College students, likely not.

On the other hand, different school districts could have different weeks off during the school year, allowing some people to work a job between all the different camps. I remember living in Germany, that each state set the holidays off for their schools and they were staggered so the whole country wasn't on October break at the same time. Here's an example:

Bavaria school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 31 - November 4, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 24, 2022 - January 7, 2023
Winter holiday: --
Bridge days: February 20 - February 24, 2023
Easter holiday: April 3 - April 15, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30 - June 9, 2023
Summer holiday: July 31 - September 11, 2023

Berlin school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 24 - November 5, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 22, 2022 - January 2, 2023
Winter holiday: January 30 - February 4, 2023
Easter holiday: April 3 - April 14, 2023
Bridge day: May 19, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30, 2023
Summer holiday: July 13 - August 25, 2023

Bremen school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 17 - October 29, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 23, 2022 - January 6, 2023
Winter holiday: January 30 - January 31, 2023
Easter holiday: March 27 - April 11, 2023
Bridge day: May 19, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30, 2023
Summer holiday: July 6 - August 16, 2023

Hamburg school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 10 - October 21, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 23, 2022 - January 6, 2023
Winter holiday: January 27, 2023
Easter holiday: March 6 - March 17, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 15 - May 19, 2023
Summer holiday: July 13 - August 23, 2023



Move to Germany.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
In reality, daycares can’t and won’t be able to adapt to a year round school schedule. Summer camps struggle to find employees when the summer is 8 weeks, can you imagine every 9 weeks finding employees that work full time for three weeks? It’s a logistical nightmare.


Summer camps are usually staffed with older high school students and college students. Older high school students would also be on the same year round schedule so they would be available. Teachers looking for extra work would also be on the same schedule and available. College students, likely not.

On the other hand, different school districts could have different weeks off during the school year, allowing some people to work a job between all the different camps. I remember living in Germany, that each state set the holidays off for their schools and they were staggered so the whole country wasn't on October break at the same time. Here's an example:

Bavaria school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 31 - November 4, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 24, 2022 - January 7, 2023
Winter holiday: --
Bridge days: February 20 - February 24, 2023
Easter holiday: April 3 - April 15, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30 - June 9, 2023
Summer holiday: July 31 - September 11, 2023

Berlin school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 24 - November 5, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 22, 2022 - January 2, 2023
Winter holiday: January 30 - February 4, 2023
Easter holiday: April 3 - April 14, 2023
Bridge day: May 19, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30, 2023
Summer holiday: July 13 - August 25, 2023

Bremen school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 17 - October 29, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 23, 2022 - January 6, 2023
Winter holiday: January 30 - January 31, 2023
Easter holiday: March 27 - April 11, 2023
Bridge day: May 19, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30, 2023
Summer holiday: July 6 - August 16, 2023

Hamburg school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 10 - October 21, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 23, 2022 - January 6, 2023
Winter holiday: January 27, 2023
Easter holiday: March 6 - March 17, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 15 - May 19, 2023
Summer holiday: July 13 - August 23, 2023



Move to Germany.


DP I would move back to Germany if my kids would be able to keep up with German schools. After years in FCPS they would be way behind their peers. We’re stuck here.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Summer is hard when kids are young and both parents work. But now that my kids are teens, we all love summer.


This. I have 2 tweens and this has been our best summer ever.

Both old enough to go to the pool by themselves with friends. Old enough to get on their bikes and go find friends. Old enough to enjoy late summer nights and then sleep in.

This has been a quintessential summer for my kids, and we haven't even done anything "big."
Anonymous
As with many aspects of our education and childcare system ("system"), the problem is that these issues only exist for families where both parents work AND they have young kids AND they lack the support network that can make this easier (grandparents nearby, for instance).

Everyone else is unbothered because they don't have to do the childcare scramble every year. Plus even for families that struggle, they age out of the struggle. And there's this weird thing with parenting issues where when you age out of them you often become dismissive of other people who are struggling with the exact same thing. It's half "I did it so you can too" and half "once it was over I realized it wasn't that bad." It's one reason why parents are often one another's biggest critics.

The learning loss piece isn't a sufficient motivator because people simply don't care enough. People with resources will pay to address that problem (I know some wealthy parents whose kids make their biggest academic leaps in the summer and actually LIKE the extra time off because they can do CTY or language tutoring and other things that school/activities actually get in the way of). Many people with fewer resources don't care as much, or have bigger fish to fry. So once again, it's this sliver of the population in the middle who cares about learning loss but can't afford to address it themselves.

In other countries, education and childcare policy is actually crafted to address these groups in the middle -- it's geared at middle class dual income families and their kids. Many/most benefits also help poor families, but that's not the incentivizing force because poor people rarely have any political power, but middle class people in other countries do. And then rich people are going to do what they want and the key is to not stand in their way too much or they'll start making noise about how their taxes are funding the system for everyone else. It's a bit of a balance, but it starts by targeting the middle group.

In the US, we just tell the middle group to figure it out and dangle the possibility of getting rich and not having to pay high taxes as an incentive (that most won't reach, especially in post-Boomer generations, due to education and housing costs).
Anonymous
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Move to Germany.


Well, my point is just that, staggering school vacation schedules could be one way to make the logistics of camp coverage work.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I agree it's too long. I feel like we should have 6 weeks like most of Europe does, and maybe longer/more frequent breaks during the year.


This would be perfect. Few weeks of camp, few weeks of travel . . . back to school!

More breaks are good, too. Everyone gets burned out with the grind during the year.


I posted above that I like summer. I also would not mind a yearlong school year with longer breaks throughout the year like a month winter break, month spring break and a 6 week summer vacation.


This would be heaven. Day cares would adapt if this became the norm. Families could take vacation in months that aren’t sweltering. Typically in America we are doing everything or nothing. There is no balance. Kids would be physically and mentally healthier and there would be less learning loss. But as with the start times no one wants to do anything that is actually good for kids.


In reality, daycares can’t and won’t be able to adapt to a year round school schedule. Summer camps struggle to find employees when the summer is 8 weeks, can you imagine every 9 weeks finding employees that work full time for three weeks? It’s a logistical nightmare.

OP. schools don’t have the budgets to go year round, plus there isn’t any research to support year round instruction has any educational benefit. Does it benefit the parents? Perhaps, but ultimately it does nothing for children.

As a side note, there is also an impact on testing, such as AP testing when the schedule is dragged out into the summer, and breaks within the school year are disruptive.


There's tons of proof that summer slide is real and harmful.

Most schools who are year round are either small enough that they can handle "camps" within the school, just like they handle before and aftercare in house. Or they have a rotation of which classes are out, usually a 6-7 week on, 2 week off schedule. With a rotation, camps would have no problem doing smaller groups and keeping employees full time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
In reality, daycares can’t and won’t be able to adapt to a year round school schedule. Summer camps struggle to find employees when the summer is 8 weeks, can you imagine every 9 weeks finding employees that work full time for three weeks? It’s a logistical nightmare.


Summer camps are usually staffed with older high school students and college students. Older high school students would also be on the same year round schedule so they would be available. Teachers looking for extra work would also be on the same schedule and available. College students, likely not.

On the other hand, different school districts could have different weeks off during the school year, allowing some people to work a job between all the different camps. I remember living in Germany, that each state set the holidays off for their schools and they were staggered so the whole country wasn't on October break at the same time. Here's an example:

Bavaria school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 31 - November 4, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 24, 2022 - January 7, 2023
Winter holiday: --
Bridge days: February 20 - February 24, 2023
Easter holiday: April 3 - April 15, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30 - June 9, 2023
Summer holiday: July 31 - September 11, 2023

Berlin school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 24 - November 5, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 22, 2022 - January 2, 2023
Winter holiday: January 30 - February 4, 2023
Easter holiday: April 3 - April 14, 2023
Bridge day: May 19, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30, 2023
Summer holiday: July 13 - August 25, 2023

Bremen school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 17 - October 29, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 23, 2022 - January 6, 2023
Winter holiday: January 30 - January 31, 2023
Easter holiday: March 27 - April 11, 2023
Bridge day: May 19, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 30, 2023
Summer holiday: July 6 - August 16, 2023

Hamburg school holidays 2022-2023
Autumn holiday: October 10 - October 21, 2022
Christmas holiday: December 23, 2022 - January 6, 2023
Winter holiday: January 27, 2023
Easter holiday: March 6 - March 17, 2023
Whitsun holiday: May 15 - May 19, 2023
Summer holiday: July 13 - August 23, 2023



Move to Germany.


DP I would move back to Germany if my kids would be able to keep up with German schools. After years in FCPS they would be way behind their peers. We’re stuck here.


This. Foreign exchange students from Germany and Austria even 20 years ago at my college prep boarding school had to take multiple AP courses just to have the year count at all.
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Anonymous wrote:What does middle schooler do in summer break? Camps or stay home? I don’t think they are old enough to work, but summer break is too long to stay at home. They have no transportation, so how do they spend time over summer if parents are out working?


They can "work" in the neighborhood. Dog sit, cat sit, yardwork for neighbors, volunteer in the neighborhood, etc.


That sounds like a lot of work for the parents. Let’s face it, we don’t live in Andy Griffith land where kids can walk around and solicit long-term jobs easily.

I can afford to send my kids to fancy sleepaway camps which is the only reason I love summer vacation. Otherwise I would hate it and be stressed out.


So you love summer because your kids are gone? At least you're honest...


Well sleepaway only started a couple of years ago when they hit upper elementary. Before that it was fancy day camps + nanny to do the drop-offs and pick-ups. But my point is that summer is hard for working parents who don’t have these luxuries.


i can see how summer would be hard for working parents. that said, you knew that there is no school in the summer when you had children. did you expect something to change?


It’s attitudes like this that cause birthrates to fall.

Things can change. Maternity leave can become universal and long-lasting. Early childhood education can be subsidized. Summer break can be shortened. No need to hold ourselves to old standards just because we always have.


+1

I don’t get people who are so against change and think people should just deal with things as is. There would be no labor laws, antidiscrimination policies, etc. if nothing was allowed to change. We don’t have to keep doing something just because that is how it’s been done before.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:As with many aspects of our education and childcare system ("system"), the problem is that these issues only exist for families where both parents work AND they have young kids AND they lack the support network that can make this easier (grandparents nearby, for instance).

Everyone else is unbothered because they don't have to do the childcare scramble every year. Plus even for families that struggle, they age out of the struggle. And there's this weird thing with parenting issues where when you age out of them you often become dismissive of other people who are struggling with the exact same thing. It's half "I did it so you can too" and half "once it was over I realized it wasn't that bad." It's one reason why parents are often one another's biggest critics.

The learning loss piece isn't a sufficient motivator because people simply don't care enough. People with resources will pay to address that problem (I know some wealthy parents whose kids make their biggest academic leaps in the summer and actually LIKE the extra time off because they can do CTY or language tutoring and other things that school/activities actually get in the way of). Many people with fewer resources don't care as much, or have bigger fish to fry. So once again, it's this sliver of the population in the middle who cares about learning loss but can't afford to address it themselves.

In other countries, education and childcare policy is actually crafted to address these groups in the middle -- it's geared at middle class dual income families and their kids. Many/most benefits also help poor families, but that's not the incentivizing force because poor people rarely have any political power, but middle class people in other countries do. And then rich people are going to do what they want and the key is to not stand in their way too much or they'll start making noise about how their taxes are funding the system for everyone else. It's a bit of a balance, but it starts by targeting the middle group.

In the US, we just tell the middle group to figure it out
and dangle the possibility of getting rich and not having to pay high taxes as an incentive (that most won't reach, especially in post-Boomer generations, due to education and housing costs).


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