Which “school board lady” are you guys referring to? Last I checked, the majority of BOE members are female. |
+1. VA is doing a fantastic job this year. |
DP, yes, my kids will continue to mask and stay in VA. They choose to mask. We don’t have to tell them or remind them. They are decent people who get how contagious this virus is and understand the impact it could have on others. They also know what is like to lose some who was young and have had several significant losses. Be grateful yours don’t know that kind of pain. Nothing can replace losing a sibling or parent or both. Basic precautions are common sense. |
Good for you. Nobody GAF. That's not the reality for most families. You're an irrelevant edge case being catered to with a very niche program. |
DP but how old are your kids my I ask? We are in VA but my 4rd grader is really rebelling against it and I'm torn whether to continue next year. He is very social and has ADHD (we started meds this year to help with the focus). I know he would wear a mask in school but all other precautions are gone and guessing by next year few kids will be masked. How did you instill this sense of empathy and understanding in your kids? We haven't resumed in-person church and gave up on the Zoom services. He plays baseball this spring but I haven't initiated getting together with families one-on-one because they all seem pretty lax. My 6th grader is fine, they'd be happy to do remote indefinitely but I wonder how they would feel not having a sibling at home. |
I’m a doctor who realizes that this is not the same virus that we had in 2020. Guidelines change, and rightfully so. And someone who disagrees with you doesn’t have a brain bleed, ffs. I mean do you have any medical training at all? Wait - I already know the answer. Keep squawking about your mitigation efforts and the rest of us (yes, doctors too!) will just keep on with our lives. |
I think the middle and high school classes are much better than the elementary as there is a lot more structure and a more normal class experience. Hopefully next year they will get more lower school staffing. We are heavily involved, monitor things, have the computers on restrictions in a shared room and are available for help. We also use some of the free virtual tutoring to supplement. It’s a lot of work for us as parents but we’d monitor things in person as well. I would send the 4th grader in person next year especially if he will mask depending on if there are health issues in your family or not. The 6th grader might like the extra attention. Talk to them. You can return in person at any time. You have to plan that he will get it and bring it home. We are doing similar. We have some outside activities but limit other contact and if we do, it’s generally outside except the rare situation. It’s a bunch of hard choices. We pull our kids from the activities when things surge and return when numbers are better. The social is the hard part. I think empathy and understanding are modeled by parents and other adults. Kids follow your lead in how you treat them and how they see you treat others. They see our concern and behavior. We set the example. We sat down and talked about it all and they understand our family situation. Our kids watch a parent suffer though health issues so they understand the impact that has on them and our concern of it happening to them. We may return in person next year or wait one more year. Kids are torn as they like VA and their teachers. As it mutates, hopefully it will get better. Our big concern is we were expecting updated vaccines by now as they said march and no more news on them. |
Don’t you have patients to see. I hope you are not one of my doctors. Maybe it’s time for a change in professions. |
Actually it’s not. We are in 2022. It’s the future and a lot of class work even in person is done online. Time to adapt. |
Given that research has shown that kids don’t learn as well on a screen, I don’t think the future looks so bright. I think we will look back and regret giving kindergartners chrome books. |
Another DP - What you're describing does not sound healthy for your children. I recommend you speak to your family physicians about your household's risk from COVID and what loosening restrictions might look like. I feel badly for your social child that hasn't attended school or church or had a one-on-one play date in two years. And for that matter your older child who feels comfortable with isolation - is that a good thing? |
I mean this genuinely. You are royally damaging your kid. Maybe for life. Get a new hobby horse and some anxiety meds and let your poor kid be a kid otherwise they will grow up to be a stunted damaged adult. Is that what you want? |
Agreed, PP is ruining their kids. They only get to be kids once, and their childhood school memories will be watching class through a laptop. Not to mention all the skills they'll be missing once they turn 18 and are out on their own. |
Losing a close family member also damages kids. No easy answers here. |
My children would never go to church regardless of Covid. What makes you think virtual kids are isolated? |