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There's no shame in being fat now.
Back then, the fat kid got teased, picked last in PE and general games, and didn't usually make any little league teams. Plus, no one dated the fat kid. I'm not saying back then was better at all, but body positivity was not a thing. Mothers back then did not hesitate to tell their daughters not to eat certain things or they'd get fat. I can remember my mom telling me to limit myself to one or two pieces of chocolate a month so I didn't get acne. Also, I was always served a smaller portion of food at dinner to maintain my figure. Boys needed food to grow and become strong. Women needed will power to be as strong as possible. My cousin was chubby from birth and as soon as she hit 12 or 13, I remember my aunt having the doctor put her on some type of weight loss drug. That stuff had her looking like a skeleton in no time at all! |
Ugh, this is depressing but true, your point about socializing. Even before the pandemic, I had noticed that engagement in things like the PTA and church groups was way down. Now, it's kind of dead. I can't wait to stop Zooming again.
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But we're also all running around with Fitbits and Apple pedometers to make sure we're getting enough steps in! I don't think this is simply a matter of less activity - there may be different activity, perhaps less built into your regular day, but, I don't know. My parents in the 80s did not exercise. I am now older than they were then, and I walk 15k steps a day. I'm also not obese - knock wood! just five stubborn extra pounds - but I see a lot of people who look like me when I am out and about. |
As someone married to an obese man, I think you should really check yourself when you say there's no stigma against being big. You may think there should be MORE social opprobrium against those who aren't skinny but I can tell you that from his perspective, there's plenty of nasty judgment still, don't you worry. |
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No cell phones or video games
Smoking |
Gloria Stevens Figure Salon !! |
We seriously need to bring these clinics back!
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We had video games in the 80s. Unless you're thinking of the 1880s. |
You are responding to me. I am also the child of immigrants and we ate food cooked at home. But didn’t you see what was going around you with your school friends? Who eats bologna sandwiches for lunch today? |
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I think there is much more snacking occurring today. I never ate between meals when I was growing up in the 60s and 70s, if anything, it was an apple or orange. There is so much types of snack food available, different kinds of Milky Ways, a gazillion types of chips, etc. When I raised my own kids in the 80s and 90s, we barely went out to eat, never had soda except for special occasions, and not many snacks.
I never smoked so can't speak to that. |
You didn't have a computer or cell phone. |
Video games, arcades, weed. All existed in the olden days... Sedentary with the munchies and people were still thinner than now. |
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I agree it’s a combination of factors.
1. More stigma and pressure to be thin, being chubby as a kid was seen as a serious problem 2. Kids and teenagers were far more active, child obesity was much lower and even lower for their parents. Once people reach obesity it’s extremely hard to change this. 3. Food did not taste very good. Yes my mother cooked from scratch and it wasn’t healthy but also didn’t taste great. It was edible but you wouldn’t want to eat more than a small serving of it. Honestly, if I served tuna casserole, dry baked breaded chicken covered in cheddar cheese, green beans cooked to mush in mushroom soup, meatloaf, turkey in a heavy cream sauce over toast or overcooked spaghetti covered in chili, cheese and onions we would all be really skinny not because these are low calorie meals but because they don’t taste good. 4. Smoking kept habit or addictive eaters from eating. 5. Fewer snack choices 6. Fewer restaurant and take out options 7. Sugar wasn’t added to everything. |
DP. Those were around for sure, but in my house they were a treat. I bought a carton of milk every day for lunch, I think it was $.10 in the early 80s a little more for chocolate milk, I didn't have juice in my lunch. A soda was a treat when having dinner in a restaurant. There was no such thing as a refill, you had to pay for each one so I was only allowed one. Now it's bottomless and you can have as much as you like if the parents allow it. There was plenty of junk but there seemed to be more restraint and less over doing it. |
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I can’t speak for everyone, but in the ‘70’s and 80’s, my parents and grandparents had large gardens, and canned or froze vegetables. Most of our meals were homemade.
As kids, my brother and I played outside - a lot. We roamed the neighborhood with our friends without a parent in sight. We just had to be home in time for supper. It was a great time to be a kid. |