Where can someone inexperienced find a date?

[Anonymous]

So I never had sex not waiting for marriage and just had one relationship and a couple of short ones, I really wouldn't consider relationships. I am looking for a relationship and I am a woman but I've tried old and of course almost every guy there is looking for sex. I am petite energetic and attractive, but an older virgin and the men that I've talked to on the app say they are very experienced and I rather be with someone who isn't and hasn't had every kind of sex under the sun. I'm not sure how to go about where to find these kind of men who are older than their 20s. I don't really go to church anymore so any ideas?

[Anonymous]

Tell your social circle and at work you are open for date and people usually know a friend of a friend will be good prospect .

[Anonymous]

Find an experienced man who is willing to introduce you to the world of s*x because you are a bit of a complicated case here sorry
And then look for relationships
Good luck, it should all have been done in your 20s tbh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I never had sex not waiting for marriage and just had one relationship and a couple of short ones, I really wouldn't consider relationships. I am looking for a relationship and I am a woman but I've tried old and of course almost every guy there is looking for sex. I am petite energetic and attractive, but an older virgin and the men that I've talked to on the app say they are very experienced and I rather be with someone who isn't and hasn't had every kind of sex under the sun. I'm not sure how to go about where to find these kind of men who are older than their 20s. I don't really go to church anymore so any ideas?

I don't think there's a magic formula to meet men. Most men haven't had every kind of experience under the sun, but you won't necessary know which ones do. Focus more on getting with someone that goes at your pace and with whom you feel comfortable. Expand your social circle and get involved in activities you find interesting as this will also expand the number of potential partners.

Is there any reason why you haven't experienced sex and long term relationships? Were you afraid of a sexual/emotional connection? Were simply not interested in those things? If the answer to any of these is "yes" and it's still a "yes" today then finding a relationship for you might be difficult and lead to self-sabotage.

[Anonymous]

I had a nice relationship with a woman like you after I divorced. I met her online. We took things very slowly. She became more comfortable sexually as time went on. If you are nice, attractive and interesting, some men will wait. However, the woman I mentioned definitely had some avoidant tendencies. Her lack of sexual experience wasn't random chance.

Some apps are more focused on long term relationships, and most apps allow you to say what you want.

[Anonymous]

Don’t worry about the sex part of it. At 23 I was very inexperienced (one guy twice) when I met my now DH and I was open with him about it. He was very good about moving slowly and not outside my comfort zone and it wasn’t long before I was very confident and pretty adventurous. We’ve been married 19 years and he seems very happy.

[Anonymous]

Go for hot guys. Get your sets and reps in and you will fit in just fine into the rest of society. The reason why I recommend hot guys is because most men are trash and not worth the effort. At least with a hot guy you won't be disappointed you hooked up with an ugly one. And trust me, most men are ugly, if not short, balding, or fat.