Going back to an ex

[Anonymous]

Dated a guy for almost two years. He was the end game for me or so I thought. Something was off and I didn’t want to continue things. I ended it in a bit of an unclassy way. Not in person. It has been months now and I have processed a lot of stuff and am considering trying to reach back out even though it seems like I’ve been blocked. Which I deserve. Guys, would you take an ex back if it was someone you were truly in love with at one point?

[Anonymous]

Umm it seems the answer for you is a clear “no.”

[Anonymous]

it's worth a try

[Anonymous]

He blocked you for a reason. Move on.

[Anonymous]

What exactly was "off". You better be able to put iit nto words. Very clear words. Try it here. What was it Op?

You will need the words for him -- in your apology.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What exactly was "off". You better be able to put iit nto words. Very clear words. Try it here. What was it Op?

You will need the words for him -- in your apology.

I think a lot of it was self sabotage and fearing it failing. We were both previously married. I did share some of that when I originally texted him a couple months ago but do plan to talk more about it and what I have been working on in therapy.

[Anonymous]

If he has any dignity he will not take you back if you ask. With that said, you have one life to live and you will always wonder “what if” if you do t try.

[Anonymous]

Don’t go backward only forward.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t go backward only forward.

This

[Anonymous]

You’ve been blocked for a good reason. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Op you sound very self absorbed. I suspect that’s why he blocked you.

[Anonymous]

If something was off, why would you want to go back? It sounds like you really wanted out.

Regardless, if you’re blocked, you have your answer.

[Anonymous]

Nooo. You are stay with you only. You do sound off. Please stay single.

[Anonymous]

Well my now spouse did this to me after a few months of dating. He got back in touch and was very patient with me and was very clear about why he had broken up and the work he had done. I will say that I was just starting to see someone else. If he had waited much longer I would not have seen him at all.

That being said he broke up with me in person and we had dated 3-4 months. Breaking up a 2 year relationship by text would be hard for me to get past.

[Anonymous]

What were the reasons you broke up with the guy?