Should I say anything?
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Anonymous
| Was at Target and made clear eye contact with a newish friend. She has a distinctive article of clothing so I’m sure it was her. She had part of her face covered in gauze. She was waiting in line at the pharmacy. After we made eye contact she QUICKLY looked away and got out of line. I’m back home now and I don’t know what to do. Clearly she didn’t want me approaching her, but I truly think she saw me, and pretty sure she knows I recognized her. Do I just give her privacy and say nothing? I was thinking of texting “here if you need anything”, but what if it wasn’t her? Texting “was that you at Target” just feels invasive. Thoughts? |
Anonymous
| Just leave her alone. She was sick or injured. |
Anonymous
| Just text her. I thought i saw you at target. Are you ok? |
Anonymous
I figured this was best. It just feels like if I say nothing, it’s showing I don’t care. Am I overthinking this? |
Anonymous
Don’t do this. She clearly wants privacy. |
Anonymous
| Don't say anything. |
Anonymous
If that was her, she got out of line for what I presume was medication related to her issue that she's treating, all to avoid being seen. That's a very huge indication that she really really didnt want to talk about it. |
Anonymous
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It's stranger to me to not say anything, people have such fake friends around here. Text her and say, "I saw you at target are you ok?"
That's what real friends do not this fake DC crap. |
Anonymous
| Too late to say anything. Let it go. |
Anonymous
How is it too late? Was she supposed to chase down the friend in Target? It’s not too late! |
Anonymous
| She’s a newish friend. Not an old one. Cut her a break and keep your mouth shut. Then maybe bring it up years down the road, if she ever becomes a real friend |
Anonymous
| PP who said to leave her alone. I think it's ok to wait a day or two and text a generic how are you. And then if she wants to open up she can, or if not, she can just say oh I'm fine and not acknowledge it was her. |
Anonymous
| God, please leave her alone, OP. |
Anonymous
| What do you think? |
Anonymous
| Let her have her shred of hope that you didn’t see her, which is absolutely what she was going for. Leave her alone. If she wants people to know what happened, you’ll find out that way and can express your concern then. |