Friend From High School
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Anonymous
| I have a friend from high school. We were close but have drifted a part a bit. We are both in our 50s. We were in each others weddings. Her husband is a complete boor and basically an ass. They live in NJ. For years now all she talks about is doing things with her family. Pretty sure they have no friends which is sad for me. I never hear her talk about going out with friends at all. |
Anonymous
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What a story.
New Jersey! Wow. |
Anonymous
| I think you forgot to finish your post. I’m confused, did you have a question? |
Anonymous
| Heh? |
Anonymous
+1. Would make a great movie. |
Anonymous
| You were roommates. You miss her. |
Anonymous
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She’s fine.
Her taste is different from yours. She is t complaining about her life. Just because you don’t find how she spends her time to be appealing to you didn’t mean it isn’t fulfilling to her. My advice would that if you want to be a real friend to her, don’t plant seeds of discontentment in her. By that I mean, don’t ask her loaded questions about how it makes her feel to always be with her family but not go out with groups of friends. Don’t highlight things in her life or marriage that you think she is missing out on. She does t need that from you. Honestly, be happy in your own life, be happy for her that she is content. |