Should we move to BF Va or CCMD

[Anonymous]

Purely for college admissions, should we move to the middle of nowhere, mountain town bum f* Virginia or Chevy Chase Maryland. Public schools. Would obviously love a chance to go to UVA but also want better odds of admission to other good schools. We can remote work from anywhere but landed on those 2 places because there's family near by.

[Anonymous]

I would like to move to the mountains of VA in the middle of nowhere but can’t work from home. I’ve looked for jobs and can’t afford to live there. We want slower pace of life and to be away from the crazy pressure and traffic here. It wouldn’t be to help with college admissions. That alone is not a good reason to move.

[Anonymous]

You’re going to need to be a little more specific about where BF is. And also, stop calling it that.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I would never move just for college admissions. I have two kids in college right now. You realize that they are in school 13 years before they go to college for just 4 right?

I think that’s too much pressure on you and the kids. What if you move your whole life and they don’t get admitted to some prestigious college?

One of my kids is about to graduate collefe in a few months – I cannot believe how fast it went. He has his whole life ahead of it. It just doesn’t matter that much where you go to college.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You’re going to need to be a little more specific about where BF is. And also, stop calling it that.

Ha ha ok. Apparently according to my relatives, local lore says some b-roll of Deliverance was filmed in the town that shall not be named, hence it's nickname.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I would never move just for college admissions. I have two kids in college right now. You realize that they are in school 13 years before they go to college for just 4 right?

I think that’s too much pressure on you and the kids. What if you move your whole life and they don’t get admitted to some prestigious college?

One of my kids is about to graduate collefe in a few months – I cannot believe how fast it went. He has his whole life ahead of it. It just doesn’t matter that much where you go to college.

I hear you. They're only going to go there for high school, so live there 4-5 years total. We're moving back to the US after an international stint.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I would never move just for college admissions. I have two kids in college right now. You realize that they are in school 13 years before they go to college for just 4 right?

I think that’s too much pressure on you and the kids. What if you move your whole life and they don’t get admitted to some prestigious college?

One of my kids is about to graduate collefe in a few months – I cannot believe how fast it went. He has his whole life ahead of it. It just doesn’t matter that much where you go to college.

I hear you. They're only going to go there for high school, so live there 4-5 years total. We're moving back to the US after an international stint.

Well, then, you have plenty of other things that will be a positive for your kids experience. Including international travel.— I would move to where you want and where you have relatives and for me that would be a close to City but you do you, but I definitely wouldn’t put pressure on kids that you moved something particular so that they could get an edge in college admissions. Keep in mind college admissions are difficult, regardless, and change over time-you really don’t know what it’s going to be like in five or six years

[Anonymous]

BF VA will be a less competitive environment - that’s good and bad.

[Anonymous]

Your kids will be more likely to graduate at the top of their class in BF but will receive a better education and be surrounded by more ambitious kids in CCMD. I’d choose CCMD because the journey is more important than the destination when you’re talking education.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will be more likely to graduate at the top of their class in BF but will receive a better education and be surrounded by more ambitious kids in CCMD. I’d choose CCMD because the journey is more important than the destination when you’re talking education.

Yes, I'm worried about peer group in VA. But the international schools, there were a lot of rich, entitled kids who were just as bad or even worse because they had fixers and never had to face any consequences. That's a lot like CCMD I'm told

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will be more likely to graduate at the top of their class in BF but will receive a better education and be surrounded by more ambitious kids in CCMD. I’d choose CCMD because the journey is more important than the destination when you’re talking education.

"receive a better education" is questionable. Maybe on average, but there are plenty of good schools in BF VA. OP needs to research the schools in BF.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will be more likely to graduate at the top of their class in BF but will receive a better education and be surrounded by more ambitious kids in CCMD. I’d choose CCMD because the journey is more important than the destination when you’re talking education.

"receive a better education" is questionable. Maybe on average, but there are plenty of good schools in BF VA. OP needs to research the schools in BF.

Just going by great school score, ccmd school is 8 and virginia school is 4. My kids are kind of lazy but get good marks and test well. Straight A's so far.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Purely for college admissions, should we move to the middle of nowhere, mountain town bum f* Virginia or Chevy Chase Maryland. Public schools. Would obviously love a chance to go to UVA but also want better odds of admission to other good schools. We can remote work from anywhere but landed on those 2 places because there's family near by.

You sound insufferable. Please move to CCMD.

[Anonymous]

Even if moving to BF somehow improved admissions odds for your kids, why would you subject them to that kind of day-to-day experience in arguably some of the most formative and memorable years of their lives?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Purely for college admissions, should we move to the middle of nowhere, mountain town bum f* Virginia or Chevy Chase Maryland. Public schools. Would obviously love a chance to go to UVA but also want better odds of admission to other good schools. We can remote work from anywhere but landed on those 2 places because there's family near by.

It depends. UMD is far stronger at things like engineering, math, economics, or CS than any VA school. For more liberal arts, though, schools like UVA are excellent.