What’s your type?

[Anonymous]

What are the things - physical, personality, otherwise - that you go for in a partner? Do you have them with your current partner?

[Anonymous]

Physical: I prefer dark hair, but not a deal breaker. I don’t like muscular men. And I like PIV, so he needs to be average size because bigger is uncomfortable (and be able to come from PIV, meaning, no death grip masturbating).

Personality: must love touch, smart, critical thinking skills, atheist or agnostic, liberal, feminist, extrovert or introvert is fine as long as they understand I’m introverted, has worked through trauma with a therapist, has healthy ways of expressing anger, can communicate, able to be vulnerable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Physical: I prefer dark hair, but not a deal breaker. I don’t like muscular men. And I like PIV, so he needs to be average size because bigger is uncomfortable (and be able to come from PIV, meaning, no death grip masturbating).

Personality: must love touch, smart, critical thinking skills, atheist or agnostic, liberal, feminist, extrovert or introvert is fine as long as they understand I’m introverted, has worked through trauma with a therapist, has healthy ways of expressing anger, can communicate, able to be vulnerable.

Excellent points! NP here. Also, meet their family and see if they are amenable to people who are like you (whether you are percieved as the same or different as them, and if that matters to them or not).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Physical: I prefer dark hair, but not a deal breaker. I don’t like muscular men. And I like PIV, so he needs to be average size because bigger is uncomfortable (and be able to come from PIV, meaning, no death grip masturbating).

Without getting too graphic can you explain what this means?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical: I prefer dark hair, but not a deal breaker. I don’t like muscular men. And I like PIV, so he needs to be average size because bigger is uncomfortable (and be able to come from PIV, meaning, no death grip masturbating).

Without getting too graphic can you explain what this means?

The first part means that large ones hurt. The second part means he doesn’t need a tight grip to orgasm. Some men aren’t able to come during PIV sex because they’ve become accustomed to a tight grip.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Physical: I prefer dark hair, but not a deal breaker. I don’t like muscular men. And I like PIV, so he needs to be average size because bigger is uncomfortable (and be able to come from PIV, meaning, no death grip masturbating).

Without getting too graphic can you explain what this means?

The first part means that large ones hurt. The second part means he doesn’t need a tight grip to orgasm. Some men aren’t able to come during PIV sex because they’ve become accustomed to a tight grip.

I wish that were my problem!!!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical: I prefer dark hair, but not a deal breaker. I don’t like muscular men. And I like PIV, so he needs to be average size because bigger is uncomfortable (and be able to come from PIV, meaning, no death grip masturbating).

Without getting too graphic can you explain what this means?

The first part means that large ones hurt. The second part means he doesn’t need a tight grip to orgasm. Some men aren’t able to come during PIV sex because they’ve become accustomed to a tight grip.

I’m very familiar with the first part (which seems like a disadvantage to well endowed guys that doesn’t get discussed much). I had no idea about the second part! Not a problem I’ve ever experienced, but that’s probably because of the first part.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Physical: I prefer dark hair, but not a deal breaker. I don’t like muscular men. And I like PIV, so he needs to be average size because bigger is uncomfortable (and be able to come from PIV, meaning, no death grip masturbating).

Without getting too graphic can you explain what this means?

The first part means that large ones hurt. The second part means he doesn’t need a tight grip to orgasm. Some men aren’t able to come during PIV sex because they’ve become accustomed to a tight grip.

I wish that were my problem!!!

What, that he wouldn’t orgasm?

[Anonymous]

I like tall, medium/large-built men (not fat), funny, down-to-earth, does not take himself or life too seriously, easy to talk to, kind-hearted, good sex, not clingy/respects my space.

[Anonymous]

Smart, fun, ambitious, 6ft+, loving, kind and very good in bed. Sadly, my DH is only 5’10” but he’s got the rest covered.

[Anonymous]

Physical - Large breasts!

[Anonymous]

Blonde slender but with disproportionately large natural breasts. Sweet and eager to please and meet my every need. Skilled in all the marital arts. Not a feminist. Willing to do far more than 50% of the household chores. Brings home a nice paycheck. Sexually available to me 24/7/365

[Anonymous]

Henry Cavill.

[Anonymous]

Physical- nice ass in yoga pants

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical: I prefer dark hair, but not a deal breaker. I don’t like muscular men. And I like PIV, so he needs to be average size because bigger is uncomfortable (and be able to come from PIV, meaning, no death grip masturbating).

Without getting too graphic can you explain what this means?

The first part means that large ones hurt. The second part means he doesn’t need a tight grip to orgasm. Some men aren’t able to come during PIV sex because they’ve become accustomed to a tight grip.

I wish that were my problem!!!

What, that he wouldn’t orgasm?

No, that I could last forever in PIV. Maybe I'd end up hating, but I wouldn't mind trying it out!