Wow. I’m kind of surprised at how short their first relationship was. It seemed to dominate media coverage in the aughts. Maybe that made it seem bigger and longer than it was. Looking at the timeline I was shocked that he was was with Jen G for over a decade and only a couple years with JLo. |
Totally. I can’t believe anyone is buying it. |
Haha. No. |
The relationship is clearly real. That they put on a "show" in public is also true. The two are not mutually excusive. I think for them, it's safer for them to control the images and their true relationship plays out in private. |
Agreed. Both are true. It's weird to be that they are so public with this relationship considering the media scrutiny played a big part in breaking them up before. But I also think that JLo is a person who lives out her life in public. They were never going to be a couple who didn't walk the red carpet together or try to keep their private lives private. Good luck to them, I give it a year and a half. |
This is what I think too. JLo looks so genuinely happy with Ben that it seems hard to fake. Ben looks happy too, but he also seems like the type to love bomb when something is new. It seems like he's this way with every woman he dates. |
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My favorite part about Bennifer reunited is that this time round, they are having so much FUN! That video of Ben stepping out of the car first, and then opening the door to unveil J.JO and beaming proudly and smugly as she steps out, uncharacteristically bashful...its...so performative, and fun and HOT.
They know we are enjoying this and they are having so much fun giving us the pictures and the videos. Jennifer is obviously over the moon in love with him, and he appears to be so much more confident, proud and has that swagger back that he seemed to have lost for years. This is real and unlike last time, Ben seems to have developed the confidence to lean into the media frenzy and have some fun! Selective fun videos and pictures for public consumption meanwhile their real relationship plays out off screen. |
This, this, this. I will feel bad for JLo when the love bombing stage ends but, really, she is a very grown woman who should know better. |
But she seems happy with every boyfriend that she has. |
Exactly. He was trying to hook up with 20 year olds on Raya right before they got together. He was throwing out feelers everywhere trying to get a bite. Unfortunately Jennifer did not learn from past mistakes. When the shine wears off he will sabotage the relationship like he always does, snd she will be forced to move on. Addictive personality- same old song. |
Ben Affleck hasn't looked this good in two decades. Damn JLo
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He looks a little withdrawn. Hope everything is ok
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