Need massage tutorial

[Anonymous]

Anyone have any good videos or references for nonprofessionals to give a great massage? I have been wanting to treat my new BF to a full body massage before spicy time. I am probably okay at it, but I’d really love a not-too-complicated tutorial on how to do more professional moves… like getting in there with a forearm to put more pressure, or when they pull your neck/head and it feels amazing, or how to do feet without tickling. I like the sort of sensual flow style. Ideally it would cover back, neck, head, arms, legs, feet, hands. Thanks in advance!

[Anonymous]

Just like being good at “other” things you need to read the room, his energy and his reactions.

Start on his back with light pressure, gradually increase as you work through his lats, shoulders and the muscles parallel to the spine, as you feel him relax or hear pleasurable sounds coming from him you’re on the right track.

Just the fact that you are doing this is going to thrill him, does it need to be like the greatest professional sports massage, this is just extended foreplay and he will appreciate it so much.

There are lots of sensual massage videos on YouTube, just look up Tantric massage and you can get a few pointers but don’t do the whole routine because chances are he won’t like half of it, just get to know your lover and the rest will fall really into place.

Always keep a hand on him, make your motions slow and deliberate, jumping around adds unpredictability which isn’t pleasurable in this setting. Before you start ask him if there is anywhere he is either ticklish or doesn’t like to be touched and really respect it.

When he is on his back long slow movements over the chest and quads are typically the most pleasurable.

[Anonymous]

As usual, go to YouTube. I often give my husband a massage starting with his shoulders and working down. By the time I get to his glutes and upper legs he wants to move beyond a massage and I’m happy to move on as well. I get a professional massage once a month which is a real luxury.

[Anonymous]

Thanks to you both, very good tips! I have perused YouTube, but there is too much to sift through. Any specific links are gold!