I'm the late 30s mom! My birthday and Christmas coming up and my partner jokes that he does an amazing job of buying what he's told to buy but I can't really think of anything special or that I want and it's driving him crazy.
There are of course things I "need" - a new pair of uggs, new pajamas, so on - but for gifts I prefer legacy or investment pieces that I will wear frequently rather than something I'd buy myself. Last year, for reference, I asked for and received a Cartier love necklace for my birthday and a Goyard bag for Christmas. I have worn them literally every day since. The year before, I asked for and received a Tiffany floating diamond necklace (which I wore almost every day until I got the Cartier necklace) for my birthday and a pair of Marco Bicego earrings for Christmas. I already have a nice watch (rolex), I don't want another necklace because I really like the Cartier one and it's a perfect everyday necklace for me. I'm not really a bracelet person but I could become one? Earrings would be good but I have diamond studs already and would want something classic. I like Van Cleef and Arpels Alhambra earrings but they are more than I would want to him spend ($4000+) and the Sweet Alhambra ones seem like they would be too small - I have long hair that I wear down almost every day. I have nice small handbags too so I don't need any more. As I am typing this out, I think I want earrings or another non-necklace jewelry piece that I could wear frequently unless someone has a better idea. Is there anything else besides jewelry I could use or wear every day? (No experiences, needs to be something tangible) Any ideas? P.S. My life is not as charmed as it seems in this post, I promise, but I do need to give him a birthday present idea. |
| Get some honking big lab diamond studs. |
| Units. |
Wouldn't they look fake? I feel like when I see people with large diamond earrings I assume they are czs. |
| You're ridiculous. Yuck. |
| Seems like you already have more than enough. Maybe you'd like to donate money to a cause you believe in and help others. |
Agreed, yuck. It makes my skin crawl to read this level of conspicuous consumption spelled out so ironically. |
I have real mined diamond earrings and pendant in yellow gold and moissanite diamond earrings and pendant in white gold. You can't tell the difference. |
| Not sure what price range you actually mean, but with a budget of $300K, I’d ask for a small condo near the beach. |
| A puppy! |
| Don’t feed the troll idiots |
| Am I the only one who thinks OP might be a troll? |
Of course not. Why would real diamonds look fake? |
| For that price range you can have either one Sean for one hour or 20 Larrys for four hours. |
No. |