Can I love two women?

[Anonymous]

I love my wife! She is accomplished, well educated, and beautiful. I am so proud to be her husband.

I also have feelings for a woman at work. She is also accomplished and well educated. She isn’t as beautiful as my wife, but she is pretty in her own way.

Is it possible for me to care for both of these women? I would never cheat on my wife, but sometimes the woman at work just draws me in.

[Anonymous]

You have a crush. An infatuation. It’s normal. Enjoy it as long as it doesn’t become physical, OP.

[Anonymous]

At some point most people crush on someone else. Just don’t take it beyond that otherwise you will blow up your world. And, the crush will fade. Since it is a woman at work you could blow up your career as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love my wife! She is accomplished, well educated, and beautiful. I am so proud to be her husband.

I also have feelings for a woman at work. She is also accomplished and well educated. She isn’t as beautiful as my wife, but she is pretty in her own way.

Is it possible for me to care for both of these women? I would never cheat on my wife, but sometimes the woman at work just draws me in.

Que that cheesy "Torn Between Two Lovers" Mary McGregor song.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
You have a crush. An infatuation. It’s normal. Enjoy it as long as it doesn’t become physical, OP.

Well, don’t let it become an emotional affair either.

[Anonymous]

Can you? Of course.

Should you? Probably not

[Anonymous]

Did you tell your work crush your feelings? Her reply should answer your question.

[Anonymous]

Unless you are in a polyamorous relationship no... leave your work friend alone lest your life become a dumpster fire.

[Anonymous]

A crush is just a lack of information, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A crush is just a lack of information, OP.

Yes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you tell your work crush your feelings? Her reply should answer your question.

Don’t ever, ever, ever do this OP. This is the stupidest mistake you could ever make, on multiple fronts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Unless you are in a polyamorous relationship no... leave your work friend alone lest your life become a dumpster fire.

And 95% of the time, polyamory = dumpster fire.

[Anonymous]

Love is an action word not a feeling so every time you are loving someone other than your wife your action is hurting your wife.

Fo you hurt people you truly love? No.

[Anonymous]

You can only really love one person at a time IMO

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love my wife! She is accomplished, well educated, and beautiful. I am so proud to be her husband.

I also have feelings for a woman at work. She is also accomplished and well educated. She isn’t as beautiful as my wife, but she is pretty in her own way.

Is it possible for me to care for both of these women? I would never cheat on my wife, but sometimes the woman at work just draws me in.

It happens to everyone but its just monogamy blues and proximity syndrome. Get a hobby or get transferred.