Tips for living with elderly parent

[Anonymous]

My out of town, recently widowed mom is moving in for a short stay while we figure things out. She is mostly independent and still drives. Ideas for activities and ways to keep her busy? She will be sad to leave her home and I don’t think sitting around is the best idea.

[Anonymous]

Hillwood House. Renwick. Go mall walking at the morning times at the nearest mall. Might meet someone that way. Join Y and do classes and/or swim. Brookside Gardens. Art class? Check out the MCPS volunteer website for SSL hours. There are a lot of ideas that don’t pertain just to kids for volunteering. Join a local park’s weed warrior program.

[Anonymous]

Great ideas PP.

[Anonymous]

Start making doctors appointments to establish them here.

[Anonymous]

Will she drive here? My mom is very comfortable driving our her hometown but finds out roads scary and overwhelming.

[Anonymous]

I would establish/stick to a routine. You don't have to tell her you've established this, just do it. Have predictable junks of time when you're not in the house. It's ok if she's bored. It gives her time to think and focus-inward - - noting that you won't be her whole world. And with predictability, she'll know you'll be back and later will have more of your attention.

[Anonymous]

Would she do a grief support group? An art class? Exercise classes?

I think having a few scheduled weekly activities is healthy for anyone.