Two blighted ovum in less than 2 years

[Anonymous]

4 transfers.

Blighted ovum, chemical, chemical and then another blighted ovum.

Have gotten pregnant with every embryo transfer but never make it to the heartbeat.

Neither my partner or I (same sex couple) have any diagnosable infertility issues. I feel constantly dismissed by these losses. I’ve had to beg for further testing and so far it’s all “normal”.

What am I missing?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:4 transfers.

Blighted ovum, chemical, chemical and then another blighted ovum.

Have gotten pregnant with every embryo transfer but never make it to the heartbeat.

Neither my partner or I (same sex couple) have any diagnosable infertility issues. I feel constantly dismissed by these losses. I’ve had to beg for further testing and so far it’s all “normal”.

What am I missing?

I had 5 transfer. First chemical, second missed miscarriage after heartbeat. The last three no implantation. I did do an ERA test and found I needed an extra 12 hours of progesterone. I would recommend that and also blood work to see if you have a clotting disorder.

I eventually went with a surrogate cause I just couldn’t do it any more. Sending hugs!

[Anonymous]

Then have your wife carry the pregnancy instead.

[Anonymous]

How old are you? Starting at 42 I had nothing but miscarriages. 3 total in 2 years, development but no heartbeat, plus one chemical. It's age.

Can your wife give it a try?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Then have your wife carry the pregnancy instead.

This

[Anonymous]

Have you been tested for Antiphospholipid Syndrome? It's just a lab test but if you have it it could mean that your body is seeing the implantation as a wound and cause your blood to clot too quickly and cut off flow. This is how it was explained to me anyway. My doctor tested me for it after my miscarriage/blighted ovum and I was positive. It likely was a factor in my infertility in the first place and sometimes a simple blood thinner around ovulation can be effective.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Then have your wife carry the pregnancy instead.

We may, but I really wanted to carry and she does not. They’re her embryos.

[Anonymous]

How old is your wife (her eggs, right)? Were they genetically tested? If not, I would unfreeze the rest and have them tested. While waiting for those results you need the recurrent pregnancy loss testing and start the rpl pregnancy protocols.