Haven’t heard from GF
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Anonymous
| My girlfriend and I communicate daily by text and phone. We also see each other around 4 days a week. For the first time I haven’t heard from her in a day. I called early yesterday evening and she sounded busy and said she call me back later that night and never called. Today no texts or calls, which is strange for us. We usually text in the morning. What would you do here? She’s definitely alive. |
Anonymous
| I don't understand why you wouldn't just call her? |
Anonymous
| She’s probably cheating on you |
Anonymous
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She’s probably over you and pulling away.
Don’t cling, just wait for her to reach out. |
Anonymous
This is playing a game. No sense in doing that. If this person is OP's "girlfriend" like he says, and he wants to talk to her, he should just call. |
Anonymous
Because I called yesterday. I don’t want to smother her. We usually just talk a lot so I’ve never had to consciously consider giving her space. We never fight or anything so we always in communication. I don’t want to be clingy. |
Anonymous
| Call her! “Hey, hon. Is everything okay? Just checking in.” |
Anonymous
| How long has she been your GF? |
Anonymous
This |
Anonymous
| When she pulls back you should too. |
Anonymous
| The obsessive honeymoon stage is not sustainable. You should just tell her these thoughts though and find out what’s going on. |
Anonymous
| If she rolled out, consider yourself lucky. You just lost 100 lbs of dead weight. |
Anonymous
| Maybe she’s just busy and overwhelmed. |
Anonymous
| Remember OP, in any relationship, the person who cares the least has the most power. Don't look needy. |