Suddenly Single at 30

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of a year and I broke up last night. He claims he's been very unhappy for the last week and that he has no desire to fix it.

Anyway I turn 30 Saturday and I thought he was the last person I'd ever have to date so if you could just give me advice or something I would appreciate it.

[Anonymous]

Thank the universe for not letting you marry this guy. 30 is still so young, the world is at your feet. My BIL met his wife at 39 and is the happiest he's ever been.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank the universe for not letting you marry this guy. 30 is still so young, the world is at your feet. My BIL met his wife at 39 and is the happiest he's ever been.

Yeah but he was such a nice guy

[Anonymous]

Get back out there when you're ready. Guys in their 30s are looking to settle down and are more advanced in their careers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank the universe for not letting you marry this guy. 30 is still so young, the world is at your feet. My BIL met his wife at 39 and is the happiest he's ever been.

Yeah but he was such a nice guy

I think that's why this actually hurts is because he was so nice and took care of me. With exes who were shitty to me I didn't care or have anything to miss.

[Anonymous]

Sorry, gal. It hurts!! 30 is a wonderful age. So much growth ahead of you. You dodged a bullet!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend of a year and I broke up last night. He claims he's been very unhappy for the last week and that he has no desire to fix it.

Anyway I turn 30 Saturday and I thought he was the last person I'd ever have to date so if you could just give me advice or something I would appreciate it.

This is tough. I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through this. I think most experts say it takes about half the length of the relationship to truly get over it. This even applies to relationships that really were not meant to be. At 30, you will likely meet somebody who appreciates you however, it might take at least six months or more for you to be ready for that. I’m oversimplifying here and can only try to imagine what you’re going through.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank the universe for not letting you marry this guy. 30 is still so young, the world is at your feet. My BIL met his wife at 39 and is the happiest he's ever been.

Yeah but he was such a nice guy

Obviously not if he stumped you a week before your birthday.

You are still very young. Let this be a blessing in disguise.

[Anonymous]

That guy is going through his own stuff. It’s hard to know what’s in his head. You may never know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank the universe for not letting you marry this guy. 30 is still so young, the world is at your feet. My BIL met his wife at 39 and is the happiest he's ever been.

Yeah but he was such a nice guy

I think that's why this actually hurts is because he was so nice and took care of me. With exes who were shitty to me I didn't care or have anything to miss.

I'm sorry it hurts but it doesn't matter how nice he was. He wasn't for you.

[Anonymous]

Plan your own birthday party! You can cry as you do it and it doesn’t mean a thing

We have all done it in some form!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank the universe for not letting you marry this guy. 30 is still so young, the world is at your feet. My BIL met his wife at 39 and is the happiest he's ever been.

Yeah but he was such a nice guy

Obviously not if he stumped you a week before your birthday.

You are still very young. Let this be a blessing in disguise.

Not even a week! Four days!

[Anonymous]

If I saw him in the street I could cast a dirty look and make him notice his ugly choice of footwear! He is a clown.

[Anonymous]

What did he do that annoyed you?

[Anonymous]

Let’s hear it