| After my daughter graduates from college next week, she and two friends are moving to DC to live close to their new jobs. I will be paying her rent since her income will be limited. I am concerned with increased violence, car thefts, etc., etc. She has taken a self-defense class and spent the past 4 years in a quiet college town. While I am excited for her, I worry about her safety especially since my neighbor (wife of police officer) questioned why she was moving to a "violent city". She will be apt. searching soon. Anyone have young adults living downtown? |
People who say that would say that about any major city. |
| No, OP! There are no young adults living downtown. Those that do move in, poor souls who didn’t talk to your neighbor, are quickly murdered. |
| Well, this goes for most cities where good jobs are. From SF to Seattle to NYC or Chicago. She just needs to use common sense and avoid trouble. |
Omg she will love it All of mine have |
| Sadly, common sense is no guarantee. |
Disagree. Aren't you following any DC crime threads? Today or just any day? |
You think someone who thinks DC is unsafe is going to think Philly, SF, Chicago and NYC are safe? |
| OP... exactly... not a day goes by that I do not hear horrible things. The police officer's wife mentioned that crime has significantly increased... even in what used to be safer areas. Would prefer a suburb instead... |
| They will love it and they will be fine. |
Where do the young people of Fox News go to sow their wild oats? Maybe Charleston? |
Very few 22 y/o want to live in a suburb, though. They want to easily be able to walk to restaurants, clubs, bars, their workplace, retail etc. If they’re on dating apps & don’t live in the city, many prospective dates won’t bother to cross the river to VA to meet them. |
True. Neither is driving on highway or getting married. Yet most of us commute and commit. |
Heck not us empty nesters want to stay in suburbia. We want similar things, minus dating unless divorced. |
I wouldn’t have wanted to be controlled by my parents’ post-college via paying my rent. OP your child is probably going to do a lot of things in the next few years that you’d probably prefer they not to do. Like solo travel, sex and drinking. |