Am I crazy to consider going back to work?

[Anonymous]

I spent 10 years doing a “big” job and quit due to complete burnout, both at work and on the home front (3 kids and DH also with a “big” job). DH makes more than enough to support us. SAH has been good but a little dull. I’ve loved having enough time to really take care of myself and my kids’ needs, but I spent so much time so invested in the corporate world, it’s been weird to just not have a job at all. Sometimes I’m jealous of DH having tons of professional wins while I’m on the sidelines.

A former colleague came out of nowhere to offer me a chiller job making about half of what I used to make but for true 9-5 hours. I guess I’m mostly worried this kind of opportunity may not come knocking again. Anyone BTDT?

[Anonymous]

Do it! You need more stimulation and true 9-5 is great.

[Anonymous]

I’m in a similar situation and considering a job. Dabbling at hobbies is not my thing.

[Anonymous]

If it works for you, go for it! Sounds like they really want you and the work is interesting. You’re right—opportunities like this are rare

[Anonymous]

Do it. You’re ready!

[Anonymous]

This sounds like a perfect opportunity, assuming that the job has flexibility. You'll probably still be responsible for sick days, professional development days, etc.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't have to be full time. You have the flexibility to be part time. Best of both worlds.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t. Part time, yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I spent 10 years doing a “big” job and quit due to complete burnout, both at work and on the home front (3 kids and DH also with a “big” job). DH makes more than enough to support us. SAH has been good but a little dull. I’ve loved having enough time to really take care of myself and my kids’ needs, but I spent so much time so invested in the corporate world, it’s been weird to just not have a job at all. Sometimes I’m jealous of DH having tons of professional wins while I’m on the sidelines.

A former colleague came out of nowhere to offer me a chiller job making about half of what I used to make but for true 9-5 hours. I guess I’m mostly worried this kind of opportunity may not come knocking again. Anyone BTDT?

How old are your children? Who will fill your shoes at home? A nanny?

[Anonymous]

Personally I’d take up some hobbies and travel more. But the older I get the less impressed I am by work.

[Anonymous]

How old are the kids?

[Anonymous]

Go for it! The best job I had was when they went after me.

[Anonymous]

I would totally do this, OP. It opens up so many opportunities including trying it for a year and quitting again if you don't like it. And it fell on your lap. No job hunting and interviewing and all that crap. Also it sounds like you already have the means to outsource cleaning, cooking, etc. You can work 9-5 and still be home with the kids in the evening.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It doesn't have to be full time. You have the flexibility to be part time. Best of both worlds.

Hmm, no, it’s definitely a full time job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I spent 10 years doing a “big” job and quit due to complete burnout, both at work and on the home front (3 kids and DH also with a “big” job). DH makes more than enough to support us. SAH has been good but a little dull. I’ve loved having enough time to really take care of myself and my kids’ needs, but I spent so much time so invested in the corporate world, it’s been weird to just not have a job at all. Sometimes I’m jealous of DH having tons of professional wins while I’m on the sidelines.

A former colleague came out of nowhere to offer me a chiller job making about half of what I used to make but for true 9-5 hours. I guess I’m mostly worried this kind of opportunity may not come knocking again. Anyone BTDT?

How old are your children? Who will fill your shoes at home? A nanny?

2, 4, and 8. I have local grandparents and 2 is supposed to go to preschool this fall.