Are the “women breastfeeding in public are looking for attention” posts coming from one person?

Anonymous
The long thread about what parenting choices people don’t understand has a frankly kind of bizarre argument going right now about whether nursing in public without a cover (pretty benign, common, and accepted at this point, IMHO) is rude and/or attention seeking. The pro-public nursing folks seem varied in tone, argument, and approach. But at this point, I suspect the “antis” are really just one (maybe two) people who answer every response with no end in sight. Can you confirm?

It’s only the last 5-10 pages.
Anonymous
I’d love to know this as well. It does read like some incel creep who is triggered by *gasp* boobies has taken over the thread. Very odd.
Anonymous
Yeah, like, I'm sorry, but this:

"Two restaurant examples: placing your infant on a table and standing above it while you let your breast hang out and massage it because "that's how they're fed at home. " Letting a 4 year old climb up onto your lap and claw your flapping boob out of your bra to stand there and suck while you crow, "breast is best!""

Never. Happened.
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I locked that thread and started cleaning it up, but I not sure I have time to do much. I haven't noticed one poster monopolizing the anti-breastfeeding position, but maybe I haven't gotten that far back yet.

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Anonymous
Ok I was wondering why my posts about breastfeeding in public were deleted?! I guess cleaning up means deleting posts about how it's normal to breastfeed in public and why it was necessary to breastfeed at my synagogue??

There were definitely some weird anti-breastfeeding in public posts on that thread including the one mentioned...
jsteele
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Anonymous wrote:Ok I was wondering why my posts about breastfeeding in public were deleted?! I guess cleaning up means deleting posts about how it's normal to breastfeed in public and why it was necessary to breastfeed at my synagogue??

There were definitely some weird anti-breastfeeding in public posts on that thread including the one mentioned...


I was deleting every breastfeeding post. But, I had to go out and now I don't feel like putting anymore effort into it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ok I was wondering why my posts about breastfeeding in public were deleted?! I guess cleaning up means deleting posts about how it's normal to breastfeed in public and why it was necessary to breastfeed at my synagogue??

There were definitely some weird anti-breastfeeding in public posts on that thread including the one mentioned...


I’m the poster who brought up the fact that no one complains about flopping man boobs and nipples out in broad daylight at the beach. We only police women’s bodies. I thought it was a good point but my post got deleted too

But I get that Jeff probably just wanted to clean up the whole thread. Shame that some people can ruin a conversation with their misogynistic crapping on BF moms.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ok I was wondering why my posts about breastfeeding in public were deleted?! I guess cleaning up means deleting posts about how it's normal to breastfeed in public and why it was necessary to breastfeed at my synagogue??

There were definitely some weird anti-breastfeeding in public posts on that thread including the one mentioned...


I’m the poster who brought up the fact that no one complains about flopping man boobs and nipples out in broad daylight at the beach. We only police women’s bodies. I thought it was a good point but my post got deleted too

But I get that Jeff probably just wanted to clean up the whole thread. Shame that some people can ruin a conversation with their misogynistic crapping on BF moms.


It was a great point. There were quite a few great, measured, body-positive posts but I think when they replied to the crazy person, the crazy post gets immortalized too.

Honestly given some of the language I wish we could know whether it’s the same misogynist post from other forums.
Anonymous
That thread was guaranteed to go downhill.
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