What regrets do you have about your own college experience?
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Anonymous
| I personally wish I’d completed the honors program and stayed with my original major. |
Anonymous
| I wish I had lived on campus and not worked full time. I was so worried about loans that I did not enjoy the traditional college experience. I worked, went to class, studied and spent any remaining time with my serious boyfriend (he wasn't in college). It really wouldn't have killed me or hurt my career to slow down and enjoy it. I totally thought I was better than the "immature partiers". |
Anonymous
| Wish I choose a different major and was more outgoing/joined more clubs but couldn't with my major/requirements. |
Anonymous
| Similar to the above, I worked in a drudgy work study job. I guess I could have found one where the money was not as good but it wasn't soooo visibly drudgy. |
Anonymous
Really? If that’s all then you did pretty well. Who cares about the friggin’ honors program by the way? |
Anonymous
| I went to a huge flagship state school. I hated it. I have siblings who went to smaller universities and had a much more positive college experience - both in instruction quality, attention to students, and making close friendships. |
Anonymous
| I wish that I had worried less about my GPA and taken more classes outside my major. College should be about more than just job training. It’s a time to explore lots of different subjects and find out who you are. |
Anonymous
| I wish my social anxiety had been better managed, I wish I was more willing to take risks, and as a first gen college student I wish I’d had more emotional support, either from the school or my parents. |
Anonymous
| I wish I had gone to a smaller residential college. I was quite shy and never really felt like I fit in at the school I was at. I also wish I had just known more about the resources available. I don’t remember ever talking to an advisor. |
Anonymous
| I loved my college experience- I worked for the newspaper, took interesting classes. I did drink way too much, and, even though I loved my school, I wish I went to a better recognized college. Oh well. |
Anonymous
| None actually! All my dumb choices were after college. |
Anonymous
| Partied entirely too much. Way too much. Wish I would have made connections with professors and non-partying students. Go Dukes! |
Anonymous
| I wish I had chosen a different major, when I realized I no longer liked mine. I wish I had reached out for help when I was suffering with depression. It’s so obvious now when I look back on it. I also wish I had used career services to help me figure out what to do after I graduated. I really struggled to figure out what to do with a degree in a subject I no longer felt passionate about. Basically, I just wish I had learned how to ask for help before my mid 20s. |
Anonymous
I did the exact same thing… commuted 15 minutes. Worked 20 hours a week. Decided I hated it after a year and doubled down on classes just to get that phase of my life over with. In hind sight, what would $30k have been to life on campus for 4 years (graduated about 10 years ago). $30k doesn’t seem like much these days, but it looked like an insurmountable mountain when I was 18-21. Huge regrets on this. |
Anonymous
I went to a huge flagship state school and adored it. I came from the boonies and I embraced the big, wide world with open arms. So many opportunities, so many majors and classes, so many sources of info. I earned two major scholarships while there that sent me abroad including a Fulbright. It was awesome. I did learn that I'm not a person who enjoys sharing a bedroom. |