When did you stop allowing your kids in the bathroom with you?
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Anonymous
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How did you do it?
My daughter is 13 months and gets upset if I'm out of sight even for me to go potty. I bring in with me, but I realize as she is becoming more mobile this isn't practical. I have a pack n play but she hated it. So what do you do with your crying toddlers when you need to use the bathroom? |
Anonymous
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Never? I will pee in front of my mom and she will pee in front of me. I guess if I have to poop I'll wait till my kids stop wanting to be with me of their own accord.
Honestly it's better for potty training purposes if your kids see you poop. |
Anonymous
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My kids still come running into the bathroom while I’m using it to ask me questions or show me something. Oldest is 12 years old so......I have no idea when it will stop.
I agree with the previous poster that during potty training and leading up to potty training it helps for them to watch. |
Anonymous
| At that age I peed with the door open. Around 3 we started working on knocking on a closed door before entering. By age 5 I would respond to knocks with “can it wait a few minutes until I’m out of the bathroom?” Reader, it always could. |
Anonymous
| I have no problem with my two year old coming in with me but I also have no problem shutting the door. Would be the same at 13 months. I think you need to get comfortable with the baby getting upset. We’re talking like 60 seconds of being upset in a safe situation (assuming child proofing or in a crib or whatever). Being upset is normal and allowed. It’s perfectly reasonable, in this case. You have to stop avoiding everything that makes the child upset, as long as they’re not in danger or being wronged in some meaningful way. |
Anonymous
Wait - 12??? I think no for that but 1 or 2 year olds can't help it. As soon as you can reliably let them stay outside the door, I'd close it. |
Anonymous
I have a 1yo and 3yo and I’m just starting to work on having the 3yo respect the closed door, so this sounds about like our timeline. |
Anonymous
| Good excuse to teach 3 year old the concept of privacy my almost-4-year-old gets it now. |
Anonymous
| M’y 7yo still wants to come in, but I tell him to stand right outside the door now. Our bathroom is too small anyway. But he knows I don’t have a penis and that I don’t pee from one. |
Anonymous
| My kid is 10. We are an all female family if that matters. We generally pee with doors open and ignore each other. For potty training I thought it was useful for her to watch so pretty sure I did everything in front of her until she was 2.5ish. Anything over than peeing we close doors. |
Anonymous
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Op here, I want to avoid the whole open doors thing. I've toilet trained plenty of kids as never used the toilet in front of them so I don't think that's a requirement.
I think op is right I have to get comfortable with her being upset I rush to soothe her over any fussing. DH has pointed this out to me |
Anonymous
get her used to amusing herself now. Even just for 5 mins to start. |
Anonymous
| I've never allowed my child in the bathroom with me except in public restrooms where I thought she might run off, or when she was potty training so she could learn by example. Privacy is important to me! |
Anonymous
| I have no privacy at all. Eldest is 4. |
Anonymous
| I’m a mom and my adult son is 42 and he still watches me pee and poop it will never end |