Deleting Tinder

[Anonymous]

Ina new relationship and we had the exclusive talk a few weeks ago. At the time we did not discuss apps. We met on Tinder. The other day I asked new boyfriend if he could delete him profile. He said he would, but it’s still up. How would you proceed here? He is the one who pushed for exclusivity.

[Anonymous]

How do you know it's still up? My husband and I had Tinder years ago (we didn't meet on there though) and i know that he like most men assumed if you deleted the app on your phone, the profile goes away. If you want to take the extra step to not be on at all, he has to delete his profile through the settings, i think

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How do you know it's still up? My husband and I had Tinder years ago (we didn't meet on there though) and i know that he like most men assumed if you deleted the app on your phone, the profile goes away. If you want to take the extra step to not be on at all, he has to delete his profile through the settings, i think

I can see his profile. I specifically asked if he could delete his profile.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How do you know it's still up? My husband and I had Tinder years ago (we didn't meet on there though) and i know that he like most men assumed if you deleted the app on your phone, the profile goes away. If you want to take the extra step to not be on at all, he has to delete his profile through the settings, i think

I can see his profile. I specifically asked if he could delete his profile.

So you still have your profile?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How do you know it's still up? My husband and I had Tinder years ago (we didn't meet on there though) and i know that he like most men assumed if you deleted the app on your phone, the profile goes away. If you want to take the extra step to not be on at all, he has to delete his profile through the settings, i think

I can see his profile. I specifically asked if he could delete his profile.

So you still have your profile?

Well played. 👏🏽

[Anonymous]

Yes, I did not delete mine yet because I want to know that his is deleted first. He is the one who asked to be exclusive. I’ve been in this spot before where someone says that we’re exclusive and then continues to swipe. I’m more than happy to delete at the same time, or right after him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How do you know it's still up? My husband and I had Tinder years ago (we didn't meet on there though) and i know that he like most men assumed if you deleted the app on your phone, the profile goes away. If you want to take the extra step to not be on at all, he has to delete his profile through the settings, i think

+1

[Anonymous]

Wow, OP. Starting this out based on trust! I see a long and rocky road (and life) constantly looking over your shoulder and around corners.

[Anonymous]

Are you guys 14? If you both are not willing to delete the app then you are not ready to really commit.

[Anonymous]

OP still on Tinder and upset that her BF is also still on Tinder...

double stand

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP still on Tinder and upset that her BF is also still on Tinder...

double stand

More to the point, she is already monitoring him.

[Anonymous]

The great southern standoff

[Anonymous]

I say no one deletes and you both deactivate. Him first and then you follow.

It’s a pain to create a new profile.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

How many dates does one get with “hypocrite” listed in their profile?