If your DH takes Viagra or Cialis...
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Anonymous
| How do you communicate when? It feels strange to schedule sex in advance, but it's not enjoyable if he doesn't take it and he doesn't want to take it if it's not going to happen. |
Anonymous
| He’s just horny all the time and I’m happy to bend over for him whenever he’s ready. |
Anonymous
Doesn't it take like 30 minutes to start working? Can you flirt and by the time it kicks in he's ready? |
Anonymous
| Just hand it to him, if he takes it you don’t need to say much. |
Anonymous
| Why doesn’t he want to take the medicine if it’s not going to happen? It takes about an hour to work, but it has no effect at all if he isn’t sexually aroused. It won’t hurt him to take it and have nothing happen if he has enough supply to take one daily. Then everything else can just happen naturally. |
Anonymous
I did not know this! |
Anonymous
| I just say, you wanna have sex tonight? |
Anonymous
| Low dose (10mg) of Cialis lasts 4-5 days. Take it Thursday evening if you expect to have sex at all on the weekend. |
Anonymous
NO it doesn't. It's good for a day, then it's about half effective the next day. That's why it's taken every day. |
Anonymous
You are my kind of woman! |
Anonymous
| They make a 2.5 and 5mg daily, ready to go anytime and it’s got cardio and bph benefits. |
Anonymous
We’re both 52, known each other since teenagers, and he hasn’t strayed in all those years so I must be doing something right to keep him coming back. 😈 |
Anonymous
But why would you take medication if you don't need it? I hate putting stuff I don't need in my body. I guess that's kind of a funny thought when talking about sex. |
Anonymous
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I feel like you don't have to think about scheduled sex as "scheduled" like a chore. But more of an anticipatory event. So like a PP said, take the time to tease and flirt throughout the day/couple of hours to anticipate what is going to happen. And, yeah, it might be scheduled, but if you change your outlook on what that MEANS, it can change your feelings about it.
If you think about it, when you are dating you scheduled/anticipated sex all the time - you shaved and got ready, went out, had a good time, came home and had sex. You excpected it all night, which made it better. So many things in life are scheduled but they are still great! Vactations! TV (are there still scheduled TV times?), A night out. Christmas (think about that anticipation you had as a kid!!). Dinner. And lets be honest, sometimes the spontaneous things we do are actually thought out beforehand. Been thinking about going to that museum exhibit a bit ... finally just jumped and did it. So it was spontaneous, but I'd actually pre-envisioned it. Or if somebody plans a surprise for you. Spontaneous for you, very planned by them. I think you should consider trying to reimagine what scheduling means to make it more of a treat, something to anticipate, and see if that helps you at all. |
Anonymous
| "Honey, why don't you take one of your dick pills while I go make us a couple of cocktails" |